depression help: tomorrow is my sweet sixteen but i am feeling depressed and i dont want to celebrate because i am lonely. - Help.com



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tomorrow is my sweet sixteen but i am feeling depressed and i dont want to celebrate because i am lonely.

please help me.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

Why do you feel lonely? Do you have friends? or do you not have any/many?

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US | 9 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

RaverBarbie wrote:
Why do you feel lonely? Do you have friends? or do you not have any/many?

i have some friends but not many. and i am getting tired of them because they are nerdier than i am. i usually hate birthdays anyway… im just really sad right now.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

What do you mean nerdier? Is that really why you don’t like them? Or is it the way you get on with them?

Whats making you feel so sad ?

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US | 9 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

they are just boring. i guess i just need new people to hang around. but i am shy. also i have never been kissed and thats making me feel sad and pathetic. and my family life is crap. i just need to escape. i almost wanna die.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

Oh don’t worry about never being kissed…your only 15/16. You have the rest of your life.

Believe me you will be proud of yourself for not rushing things when you are older.

I don’t mean to sound patronising. But just concentrate on whats happening, not what could happen.

You shouldn’t ditch your friends just because they are boring. They were still there for you. They may even find you boring!

If you are not compatable with them then fair enough. You need to meet new people. The best way to meet people is to join some sort of class or club doing something you enjoy. Everyone else is there because they enjoy it too. So you are finding people with the same interests. And thats also an easy topic to start a conversation with them.

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US | 9 months, 1 week ago (15 minutes after post)

sigh…i guess….
i am just not happy overall with my life.
i dont see a reason to get up everyday.
i dont know the purpose of my own life.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (36 minutes after post)

So why did you get up today?

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