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so in my boyfriends past he took naked pics of a girl and 10 months into our realtionship decides to tell me the truth…

.now what i am very very hurt and sickened but i love him

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downtowndaisy offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 47 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

To me it is not such a big deal, unless he did it without her consent. If that were the case, then I would really sit down and evaluate the relationship.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 9 months, 1 week ago (56 minutes after post)

perhaps you should think if he was taking pictures
of you.Would that sicken you?
If you say yes it would, then you should take a look
at your and his view on such things.
If you say that it would not be offensive to you
then give him the benefit of the doubt and realize
that what he did was with in the range of normal.

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Khalivarsha² offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
Minneapolis, MN, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (8 hours, 18 minutes after post)

Why does taking pictures of a naked person sicken you?

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RAWR offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (2 weeks after post)

dizzydaisy wrote:
To me it is not such a big deal, unless he did it without her consent. If that were the case, then I would really sit down and evaluate the relationship.

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A1 Steak Sauce offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (7 months, 2 weeks after post)

regardless, it’s a big deal … the pictures may not be the soul purpose why she is hurt … she’s hurt because he hid something from her after 10 months of asking him.

sometimes we see past all of the bullshit … i understand you love him but you guys need to be open with one another … FULLY OPEN … communicate and you’ll see things are gonna be alright not yelling but talking.

naked pictures might not sicken her it might just be the fact that she feels like a little bit of their intimacy might have been stripped from them knowing about this other girl.

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katikaze offline Verified User (4 weeks, 1 day) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks ago (8 months, 1 week after post)

Are we all getting the wrong end of the stick here? Was it a young girl? Or someone older?

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