friends help: what are some good topics of conversation that can be used on someone you like. - Help.com

i”m in the same boat. except i am agirl. quiet. and like a boy. however i can’t think of anything to say when he comes around me and tries to talk. i get so nervous and feel so stupid.. my sister tells me to say anything at all.

Talk about something you like that means a lot to you! Better yet, if you know of anything you BOTH like, its an instant win!
I was in the same boat all through highschool.

Ask her whats shes thinking! say it cute like “what cha thinking?” lol. Always worked for me :). Failing that ask what cha reading/watching/listeningto/drinking/eating whatever. You strike gold when you find a persons passion and conversation will just flow, till then be happy with cute small talk!

Just ask her a lot of random questions. That way, she will do all the talking. And don’t try too hard. If you are trying too hard, you will spend too much time stressing and thinking about questions. Listen and think about what she is saying. You shouldn’t have to hold the conversation. If she isn’t talking that much she might be just as nervous.

i think you should talk about music.everyone has to listen to music somehow.plus you two might have alot in common all starting with music.

open with a stupid joke and ask questions questions questions. Use this time to figure out what she likes…the more you talk about her and the less you talk about yourself the better.

dotspot wrote:
Just ask her a lot of random questions. That way, she will do all the talking. And don’t try too hard. If you are trying too hard, you will spend too much time stressing and thinking about questions. Listen and think about what she is saying. You shouldn’t have to hold the conversation. If she isn’t talking that much she might be just as nervous.

Thats the problem I had the guy I like talks to me but we usually have short conversations because Im shy and give short answers or don’t really talk :/ but don’t be discouraged just keep at it and she’ll become comfortable with you sooner or later :)

“**** your fine”?
that’d start up a conversation

Just be yourself, If she doesnt like that it wasnt meant to be.
Thats way better than acting like someone youre not and then ruining the relationship later, and hurting her in the process.