Im 13 and i’m still afraid of the dark.
And im worried in the future i still will be..
i have this feeling that something or someone will pop up or something..
i share a rooom with my sisters..im glad too!
Idont think they’re afraid of the dark at all.So why im i?
i just hate it.. i think of all these frightening things…
and now, it’s 2:21am in the morning and ive made it this far thanks to a bottle of coke… and im scared..andmy 2sisters went partying and arent home yet.. my parents are sleeping…and if my computer makes noise - or the refrigerator does..i shrug..
help me please,i don’t wantto be scared in the future..
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im also afraid of being alone..in the house
Maybe you should ask your parents to buy you a night light to go in your wall or a small lamp to put in your room.
dotspot wrote:
Boo!
thats so mean!
sweetheart14_tasea wrote:
Maybe you should ask your parents to buy you a night light to go in your wall or a small lamp to put in your room.
wouldnt that b kind of embarassing?
im scared of being at home alone.
its ok.
sometimes i am afraid of the dark to.
but i have my reasons.
has anything happened to you that makes you scared of the dark?
I use a night light — I just thinks it makes it easier if I need to get up during the night for some reason.
Sometimes covering my head with the blanket makes me feel safer. Just make sure to breathe ;)
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i had this problem. i fixed it by:
Ly in bed and visualise a big golden bubble in your hands.
When noises happen, forget them, just keep thinking about the shining, glowing, warm bubble in your hands.
Make the bubble get bigger.
Squeeqe your hands, then arms, then body, legs etc. into the bubble, so now the bubble is as big as you. A big protective bubble that nothing can touch.
Now, inside the bubble, tell yourself that you are safe, and relaxed. You are now free to fall asleep or read a book or whatever it is, because nothing can come into this bubble.
If your still feeling abit scared, make the bubble bigger. the size of your room, your room and the next, your house, your neighborhood etc.
this helped me. It gets eaisier if you do it everynight.
imgonnabamomm wrote:
its ok.sometimes i am afraid of the dark to.but i have my reasons.has anything happened to you that makes you scared of the dark?
yes..ive been watching lot of scary documentrys..like aliens and stuff..
and also my figment of imagination..it can turn a dissh into a whale..
or a pillow into a face. Once i was alone in my room and it was hot and i was staring out the window from my bed.. so i saw my backyard’s huge tree and since it was soo dark,it madeitlook like someone’s face..
chantelle_lyma wrote:
i had this problem. i fixed it by:Ly in bed and visualise a big golden bubble in your hands.When noises happen, forget them, just keep thinking about the shining, glowing, warm bubble in your hands. Make the bubble get bigger. Squeeqe your hands, then arms, then body, legs etc. into the bubble, so now the bubble is as big as you. A big protective bubble that nothing can touch. Now, inside the bubble, tell yourself that you are safe, and relaxed. You are now free to fall asleep or read a book or whatever it is, because nothing can come into this bubble.If your still feeling abit scared, make the bubble bigger. the size of your room, your room and the next, your house, your neighborhood etc.this helped me. It gets eaisier if you do it everynight.
OMG!!!!!!! that is soooooooooooooo awsome!! ur so creative! how’d u come up w/ that?
find the warrior within and comfront the fear!
imgonnabamomm wrote:
well then dont watch those scary movies and stuff.
ye,geeze, they’renotsoo hard to miss.
it’snot always a scary movie.itcan be a normal youtube video too!
Like for example this video:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=UClLy7dPOIg
her face can like.. scare me forever..even though i admire her
but like.. myimagination can make her intoa clown or something..
many people are afraid of ghosts.
Realize that for every human alive there
are about ten ghosts around us at all times.
Most of them are our old relatives etc.
The important thing to know is that they will never
show themselves to you without your permission.
The only time Ghosts will show themselves without our permission is in places
that are haunted.I am sure you would know if you house is haunted.
Now about aliens.Most videos about aliens play on peoples fears.
The truth about aliens is that all the other planets in our solar
system have life on them.
They visit us regularly but they are not scary or bad or evil.
The two who come regularly are from Venus and Mars.
The ones from Mars are very advanced technically and better
friends we cannot have.They clean the atmosphere of dangerous radioactive
particles.As a free service as a good neihbour would.
Soon the world will see and know of them and we will recognize
how much we are in debt to them.
spiratec9 wrote:
many people are afraid of ghosts.
Realize that for every human alive there
are about ten ghosts around us at all times.
Most of them are our old relatives etc.
The important thing to know is that they will never
show themselves to you without your permission.
The only time Ghosts will show themselves without our permission is in places
that are haunted.I am sure you would know if you house is haunted.Now about aliens.Most videos about aliens play on peoples fears.
The truth about aliens is that all the other planets in our solar
system have life on them.
They visit us regularly but they are not scary or bad or evil.
The two who come regularly are from Venus and Mars.
The ones from Mars are very advanced technically and better
friends we cannot have.They clean the atmosphere of dangerous radioactive
particles.As a free service as a good neihbour would.Soon the world will see and know of them and we will recognize
how much we are in debt to them.
ok i wont scream,how do u know the alien stuff?
Anonymous wrote:
CAUSE HE/SHE IS 1!!!!!!!!!
why are you scarying me?
so what happens when your sisters are home and you get scared>?
do they help you? like comfort you?
or do the like laugh?
afraidofthed12123ark wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
CAUSE HE/SHE IS 1!!!!!!!!!why are you scarying me?
i was joking!
imgonnabamomm wrote:
so what happens when your sisters are home and you get scared>?do they help you? like comfort you?or do the like laugh?
i just hate how im a fraidy cat..honeslty,i wish i wasn’t scared ever.
my sisters,old and mature,i don’t tell them my problems.. although
it helps when they talk about w.e at night..
they’re 17&21
even the notice for ‘’im 13 and imstill afraid of the dark'’ just scared me..
dear god
once i stayed up till 4i n the morning without any sleep..i was really scared
why are you still here? Go and do the bubble trick. Get some sleep kiddo
BigLove wrote:
why are you still here? Go and do the bubble trick. Get some sleep kiddo
im sorry but, i’ve tried methods like that.And they havent worked.
Like, i need something more.
I cant even create a bubble…
i usually fall asleep soon..
when i think
‘’screw this,im really beat..i don’t have to think anymore because im tired'’
soo scared im in my living room..
why dont you just go and talk to your parents?
or get a sleeping bag and sleep at the foot of their bed.
thats what i used to do.
but now i have kids of my own to take care of.
alrighty, thank you everyone for those helpful suggestions.
How do I know about the alien stuff?
From many sources.The crop circles appearing
all over the world are made by them… Google
crop circles.This is gentle and pretty way
for them to introduce themselves to us without
all the scary stuff.
The Roswell Incident was a Martian spacecraft
that they purposely crashed to once again introduce
themselves to us.
The whole thing was picked up by the military uncluding
the Martians and taken to a storage warehouse some place
and what freaked them out so much is that the Martians
took the whole thing back to Mars including the Bodies.
Naturally the military couldn’t deal with that so they
squashed the whole story.
So the information does need a little digging but its out there.
Fear no evil,for Thou Art with you…..I had the same problem till I was 26.You can beat it now.Have faith in knowing God is with you and have faith in yourself that you can handle whatever happens, if something does.I used to actually be so scared ,I’d freeze.I had to literally make myself move a muscle so I wouldnt burst or ?.Fear of what might happen is a scary .normal feeling.But it can be overcome.I f I heard a noise,I would make myself go look,every time, still do check,just only a little curious now. First I would take a big breath,hope for the best,and go .This way if it was something I was prepared. Every time-it turned out to be just the fridge or something logical.It wastes your time,energy and can take your precious,needed sleep.If you let it.Make a promise to yourself that you won’t let a FEELING take these things from you.Focus on the facts,not the feeling. It’s worked for many years.
Praying first helps too, of course. There is power in prayer and in numbers.
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