boyfriend help: Yesterday i found my boyfriend of 8 months in bed with another woman. - Help.com

Stop referring to him as your boyfriend..

Time I think to move on.

she is right you deff have to move on and its going to b hard let me not lie

So sorry to hear a story like this. But he made a mistake and there is no way you should let him get away with it. Move on. The hurt is going to be really unbearable. But that is fine dear, get some support from friends or family. That guy is not even worth a tear.

I can tell you what to do next sweetheart. Cut up all his clothes into little pieces and toss them out on the front lawn, order a cement truck to fill his car with concrete, burn every photo you ever had of him, then sit down and have a nice cup of coffee while you think about how lucky you are to be rid of such a scum bag.

mezz……. i hate to love girls like you =p

move on!
if he can cheat on u
he was never urs
dont let hem do it again
move on

Bahaha Mitch…. Aw becca, thats an awsome idea

Hey,
You know what? Count yourself lucky that you saw it with your own eyes. At least you’ll be able to believe it, his excuses won’t wash and you’ll be able to dump him. It’s not going to be easy, especially if you thought he was the one. Surround yourself with friends and family and the pain will ease. I don’t know how guys like that sleep at night. He’ll get his come-uppance, trust me. All cheaters do eventually.

its ok lol yah but its mad scary wat you gils can get a way with…… … .. .

Lol, Ive never done anything revengeful, but oh… its so full filling thinking about it. One guy I was with for 5 years cheated pretty much the whole time we were together, but I was in denial I guess, kept forgiving him, so he kept doing it. I was so in love with him, that when we broke up I thought the pain was going to kill me. But time went by, and every day got a little easier. Now he is engaged to a girl and has been cheating on her to. Im so happy Im not wasting another day with the tosser.

yah im kinda going though that right now

Revenge is never a solution.
It is just an expression of anger and weekness.

wow
this is a big thing cheating
it happens to a lot of nice people
it alway good to talk, there r lots of people that got good answers
(evenge is stepping down to the cheater level)

but let me tell you it shurer dose feel good

I’m so sorry T.T

dump him. -there you go!

well, i think that you catching him do it is a POSITIVE THING because you know the TRUTH. that hes a LOSER and is someone who is not faithful. u r better off than both of these people because…
the girl is with some1 who isn;t faithful and hes a lying cheat.
cry now and get on with it, they both have potential desconstructive lives ahead of them.

destructive lives i think its right word!

8 months thats not long move on dont forgive dont go back and dont sulk about it be strong and have a good but safe time playin the field

well.. i would have pulled her @ss out of that bed and beat the crap out of her… then when she went running home… i would have turned to him started whooping his @ss.. lol..

lil_bit_shi wrote:
well.. i would have pulled her @ss out of that bed and beat the crap out of her… then when she went running home… i would have turned to him started whooping his @ss.. lol..

lol

oohhh… im not joking….. it has been done…. im a mean b!tch when it comes to someone messing with my man…. im not very nice… infact… its a side of me.. that i try to warn someone about as im getting to that point… but its them that dont want to listen… the last girl actually got her face litteraly broken by my fist… her eye socket and her nose… i was ticked… i dont play when it comes to that kind of stuff… its actually a side of me that scares the crap out of me…. cuz i have no idea what im doing after i give that warning…

Bahaha… Next time I get cheated on, Im sending for you !!! @ lil bit shy

hahahahahahaha…. ill handle it for ya…. lmfao….

LOL!! Your name is deceiving in that case :)

yes it is… actually.. its a name that i have used since being with my husband… i have just decided to keep it.. now, its an alibi for me.. people who know me personally know that im not shy at all anymore… im very out going..

wow if it were me i would be afraid that a cheater could have possibly infected me with an std. if i were you i would make sure that is not the case.