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I am new at this so pls be kind. I dont really post questions, I work at a job that with senority you get to pick you shifts. We work in teams. I have work in jobs for over 20 years and never had this kind of situation. I have been on the same shift for 1 year, my boss asked me to change to another shift. I asked why and the answer was really far fetch so I asked for the real reason and the boss said it is because a couple of people do not like to work with me. Needless to say I was upset. All I can do is cry. I know this is foolish, but I am at a loss for words, I cant leave this job because I need the money and senority. I love my job. I dont like certain people but I would never go to the boss and say I didnt want to work with them. That is everywhere, but this is out of left field. Please give me any advise. Thank you for you help
Em

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Endur offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Primm Springs, TN, US | 2 years ago (22 minutes after post)

Hi Anon…Sorry to hear of your troubles, people can be so selfish. Do you know who they might be?

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

Can you switch shifts easily? My point is if you don’t like some of the people you work with, and they obviously don’t like you, perhaps a better shift will suit you better.

There are those in our lives that we just simply do not like. Jung would tell us that we are probably just projecting our own Shadow onto them. In other words, what we dislike in others is what we hate about ourself. I have found that this is often VERY true. If you take a really good, honest look at yourself, you’ll find that you have deep emotions that you disown that you can see clear as day in other people. Once you own them, once you realize that you project these emotions, life becomes alot easier; as least from that perspective :)
Bright blessings ~ Richard

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nextstar offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years ago (4 hours, 27 minutes after post)

your boss didn’t fire you, he just asked you to change your shift. If I were you I would change my shift easily then prove to him & my colleagues that I’m a bad person & I’m so great that everyone want to work with me.

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