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I’ve been going out with a girl called “Nancy” for awhile now.

Just this month, “Nancy” started hanging out with another guy. Not dating or anything, but here’s an example. I was talking with her, and she saw “Bob” and ran to go talk to him. This happens online too. We talked a little about it, and she said “Bob” was just a friend. Bob is smart and athletic, I’m not.

What should I do? I’m too scared to say anything

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (23 minutes after post)

Don’t jump to conclusions. “Nancy” has told you the situation between her and “Bob”. Step back and trust her. It could be they are JUST mates. Girls are aloud to have guy mates. And I know her behaviour can seem odd but then we all act different with different people. Just remember. She is dating YOU. No one else just YOU!!! She has told you the situation. You did the right thing by talking to her. But now you need to stop worrying and let it be. Take comfort in know she is with YOU. Trust her! She trusts you.

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