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I really can’t handel the stuff I am reading on here.

I am on here alot, but today has been filled with the most disturbing things ever. I cant take it anymore, I don’t think I will ever come back to this site. Why do so many people want to kill themseves, it is really sad. I’m depressed now…

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San Francisco, CA, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (0 minutes after post)

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AnishK offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 45 #
US | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

This is life… face reality, my friend.

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 378 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

come on ,you can’t be depressed! your always happy and stuff on here, you being depressed would make the universe collapse!

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dotspot offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

Are you asking Help.com to help you deal with Help.com?

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mjaynec offline Verified User (9 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Columbus, GA, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

This is help.com not come chat when you’re bored. Keep your expectations real.

i love Tigger!!!!!!! offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 657 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

oh well………..

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Loving_it offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Bloomfield Hills, MI, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

hey, there are just a lot of people out there with problems. You don’t have to always be here to help them, take a break once in a while.

mjaynec wrote:
This is help.com not come chat when you’re bored. Keep your expectations real.

True.

I know people being depressed can be depressing, but if you’re on help dot com, you’re either here for help, or to help others.

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xxxburningflowerxxx offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

people are sad people are upset and they count on us to help them

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 378 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

yea man! keep your chin up and your troubles out of mind!

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Dream Dancer offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

I know there are a lot of people who are having serious problems and it seems like you cant do anything, but Im sure just being positive and optimistic will help people or at least help them realize what they can do to help themselves. Just do what you can

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xxxburningflowerxxx offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

beside when you know you have helped some one how can you feel sad you could have just saved a life

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Loving_it offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Bloomfield Hills, MI, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

Maybe you should just take a break for a day?

Idk…

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 378 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

or mabye just brightened a persons day, either one makes it worth it, i think

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wordfarer offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

Depressed? I hope you aren’t considering killing yourself (hehe)

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dotspot offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

I was smiling the last time I attempted suicide.

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 378 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

mike, if your to leave then leave. Don’t wait around. Either stay and help, or leave and be forgotten. Your choice. Don’t Dawdle.

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9 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

I tried to kill myself again just last night, but I think it was more of a ‘cry for help’ suicide rather than the real thing…i seem to be better today.

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Hi_Sai offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Chicago, IL, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

Oh, honey, this is help.com! People come here because they’re desperately seeking help and somebody to talk to. This is where people go when real life turns them down. That’s partially why I came here.

If you want lighter talk. Go to the chat box. (You can click the link to it at the top of the page) The people who chat are more bubbly than the people who post for help.

And besides you don’t NEED to read the suicides posts.

And if you do…try to help them…because that’s what this website is here for.

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wordfarer offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

Perspective I suppose, honestly apologize for the disagreement.

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mjaynec offline Verified User (9 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Columbus, GA, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

mike19 wrote:
I AM NOT COMPLAINING…I just really needed to say all that.

How are you not complaining?! You’ve been on here all day with crap posts. Could it be that you just desperately want the attention? Do you come to help.com to be in the spotlight?

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 378 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (15 minutes after post)

well, that would be a cry for help i suppose…

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 378 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (17 minutes after post)

If your bored entertain yourself with the internet outside of help. Its fine to make some dumb, useless posts (god knows, im guilty of that), but thats way too many from you.

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mjaynec offline Verified User (9 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Columbus, GA, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

Sorry I got a bit mean, but I just felt like someone had to say it.

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wordfarer offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

“no, I am just bored…what is wrong with you.”

If you are just bored, which sounds like a pretty casual occurrence, then what provoked you to discuss the ethics and purpose of a website?

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 378 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

you could do these talks through shout outs…

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Loving_it offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Bloomfield Hills, MI, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

mjaynec wrote:
Sorry I got a bit mean, but I just felt like someone had to say it.

someone did need to say it.

Commander Ikari wrote:
you could do these talks through shout outs…

or learn how to freakin use AIM, or play a MMO, or something, there’s more ways to talk to random people than help.com. However, help.com is just fine, go ahead and talk to random people, I do it too. Don’t complain about the real issues though, that’s a load of crap.

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 378 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

its is when you send a message to a person, called a shout. that way you can talk to folks without posts

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wordfarer offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (23 minutes after post)

“and if you have a problem with that I really don’t care”
And you call yourself a “people person?” (Just kidding)
OK, right on, carry on.

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ÑÌnJÅ_ offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (24 minutes after post)

I know how you feel dude,half the things i read on here about young teenage girls having or wanting babies , really makes me feel down and talking about killing themselives really makes me wish i could do something to help but i feel i cant , cause i know from going through the samething ,that only person that can help is yourself.

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Loving_it offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Bloomfield Hills, MI, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (35 minutes after post)

:(

Listen, if you have problems right now, we’re all here to help. Everyone gets annoying to someone at one point in their life. So don’t worry about it. However, complaining about the simplest things is not a way to be non-annoying.

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~LazyDaze offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 185 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (2 days, 10 hours after post)

It is a sad but true fact, there are times on here where the smotional stress runs a little higher and it is best t take a step back and calm down.
Most people find this place though haveing problems and trumas and maybe if you find it hard to cope with you should find and uplifting site to go too, I have many, mainly joke sites and fun things to try and distract my mind and evry now and then I will post what I find to try and cheer others up, but the fact is this site will always be this way and if after a only a month it is bringing you down you shoulr evaluate what is best for you.

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