school help: I am UGLY! - Help.com

I am attractive and when I am confident is when I have people tell me about it. When I am not, no one takes a second look. The only thing that changes is my confidence. I’ve also seen people I would not say are attractive and I think they are hot when they are confident. I barely notice the skin.

Everyone has ‘a look.’ figure out what yours is and work it!!!

Every one is beautiful in there own way… some people see it .. others do not and the best thing you can do is stick your nose up at them and walkk away with your head held high.. i know what its like to be bullyed and called ugly because i had exactley the same problem but it just got worst so in the end i went to my teachers and they sorted everything out… and about your mum.. just tell her how you feel and that you are upset that you are feeling put down….. people will respect you if you stand up to them….

I think you should change your self do some sports g oto the gym in 1 year if you do all of this every day you will look great. And take some protein food for muscle groath it will chanfe your body and your face in 1 year.
it depends how old you ar and what sport can you start doing.
Take a byke and 3 times a week do 9miles, i go to gym every night, in the morning i do push-ups and i culerd my hear blye so it looks cool , change your stile of life it will help you , im positive in 1 year you will be a new man.

I just wanted to say thanks to one of the people up there who said to just laugh it off or smile and then joke about them. that made me realize that no ones perfect. And trust me i had the lowest self-esteem of the planet of earth. I just got back from school and two guys were calling me fat, ugly, and they said that i looked like a man kinda like the person who made this post, so i got in the truck and started to ask myself “should i kill myself?” but i got home and my mom thinks im deppressed but she went back to work anyways. But when i got home i got on the internet to see if there are ways to kinda get rid of all those comments from all the guys and i now realize that maybe i could just laugh or smile and see what happens but i don’t know because i go to a school with stuck up guys who think them and their friends are cool just because their purverted and say to all the other girls nasty things about them and all these other guys so maybe i can just laugh it off and go on! thanks :]

Anonymous wrote:
Sweetheart, I know this is hard but I think the first thing you should do is joke on yourself. When they joke on you, laugh with them and crack on yourself. That takes their power away. When you joke on yourself it makes it less painful and for them…It makes it less fun bto pick on you. They joke on you because it gives them power, they know it bothers you. Act like you don’t care. Laugh/smile it off. It’ll throw them off.
The next thing I think you should do is JOKE ON THEM BACK. Surely they aren’t perfect. Find a specific feature about them that you don’t like and let loose with the joes as well. Let them know they ain’t all that either. I bet none of them look like Halle Berry anyway and even if they did…You can always find something to crack on.
NEXT Ignore all the negative talk (even from losers who are typing harsh things on this site) and try getting a make-over. When you LOOK good you feel GOOD. How would you prefer to look? Go to a salon. Get your hair done differently. Shop for new clothes, sexy but not slutty. Make-up even. I don’t believe you need all these to be a better perso but you obviously have low self esteem so IT MIGHT WORK FOR YOU. Think about it. Be CONFIDENT too. Stop letting people know your insecurities.
PS: JUST BECAUSE you look like your father does NOT mean you look like a **** man. I know plenty of females, beautiful females who look like their fathers and they don’t look like men at all. They have their father’s features (DNA hello?) but they still look feminine.
I hope you feel better sweetie. God bless.

no offense but do you live in the 21st century. That crap doesnt work at all anymore they’ll just crack on you for talking about yourself it encourages them. What you should do is straight up ask them why they do what they do. ask them why do you pick on me?
ask them why do they insist on making themselves assholes by unprovokingly messing with you?

I am very ugly… and i look just like my dad which is why everyone in the family says I am pretty. In school no one ever likes me… I have big puffy cheeks and a huge nose. I am very hideous actually… It is really hard being ugly

chillax. GOD!!!!!!!! every1 iz beautiful..u may have a big nose..b fat..have zits…look like a guy or w/e…have u ever seen extreme makeover..or those oprah shows…i get stunned by those…imagine how beautiful ud become after one of those..SO THE TRUTH IS ……. YOU”RE BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes its true that looks matter but there not the only things that matter. But people always telling you that dont worry about it and just ignore them its just bull-crap you know deep down it doesnt work. what you need to do is start working out if its acne go to a dermatoligist but me i cant be talking im fat and im ugly and im going to start working out and get my acne worked on. i think you should do the same but hey this is just my opinion there are people who just truly dont care what you look like and those people are truly mature and people making fun of you they just do it to make them selves feel better / but ignoring them doesnt help and all these people telling you that. they never had the problem so just do something about it.

I struggle with the same self-confidence issues as you do. When I was younger, my brother’s friends would call me “Little Brock” (my older brother’s name is Brock) because I looked so much like him. My brother is definitely not ugly, but I am a girl and it’s hard to hear that. Also, I’ve been called fatty and numerous other retorts. It hurts- it really does, especially when you’re 16 (that’s how old I am). I feel and look ugly all the time, but I’ve since realized that I’m choosing to make myself miserable. Why should I let them decide how I act? I used to be very outgoing until my extremely low self- confidence got in the way and now I feel like whatever I say or do is being judged. I’ve actually had the thought that I couldn’t do certain things because I am fat and ugly. When my friends go to school football games, I am very apprehensive to go (I usually don’t go). I worry that people will judge me. As hard as it is for me to realize, I know that I need to accept how I am. Why should I choose to be miserable?

well cliche no obviously your not beautiful

dear , i am a 15 year old girl i am a model
trust me even for me i feel ugly most of the time because evryone at school say i’m ugly they say i have a big nose i look like mr burns i have blue bags under my eyes and i cry myself to sleep

-> when i look at myself i do think im pretty, i also am a model
but still the school laughs at me for my big nose bags and me being ugly
buti just wanted to tell you this so you know WHATEVER PEOPLE SAY MIGHT BE TRUE TO THEM BUT NOT TO OTHER PEOPLE, NOT TO MOST PROBABLY , MOST STUFF THEY SAY IN SCHOOL MAKES ME CRY BUT I KNOW THAT DEEPDOWN I HOPE THAT ITS JUST THEIR OPINION.

people mostly dont believe me on online stuff
youre a model yet you get bulied for being ugly at school …
just wanted to tell you this i really hope you read it … :)