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is it possible to be in love with two people at once?

when you really think about it. do you believe its possible?
this has been on my mind for a while.
not because of any “situation” so dont go judging me, i just wanna know-do you believe its possible? and if it i….what do you do about it?!

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jonboybam offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Mortimer Common, K7, GB | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 minute after post)

yes it is.

you have to diside who you will be best with.

do they love you back, can you see it working with them?

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1 year, 9 months ago (2 minutes after post)

they both do. and i can see myself with both :(

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1 year, 9 months ago (2 minutes after post)

how can you be in love with two people and not do anything about it though?

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 9 months ago (3 minutes after post)

of course you can you can be in love with two people
you can be in love with a lot more than two.
Unfortunately multi-partner marriages don’t generally work.
So for the long term relationship you’ve got to narrow it down
to your soulmate.

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1 year, 9 months ago (3 minutes after post)

how do you know though? what if you really see yourself with both?

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Miss em offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Gort, 10, IE | 1 year, 9 months ago (26 minutes after post)

you can love two people of course but i think only one of them is right fo ryou and the other is a wrong choice!!!

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Joel Phantom offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
GB | 1 year, 9 months ago (40 minutes after post)

I don’t think so. Take both those people who you think your in love with away, and you’ll soon figure out who you love and who you don’t.

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jonboybam offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Mortimer Common, K7, GB | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 hour, 36 minutes after post)

you have to dicise what the pros and cons are with each one, dicide on onw that just eges aboue the other that you can see spending all your life with. dont go for both as all three of you will get hurt.

take your time and make your mind up in good time, dont rush in or you could make a mistake, you have all your life to be with the ones that you love.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (2 hours, 16 minutes after post)

you can love the other one, then appreciate the other. or miss the other. but if you really think about it, you love only one of the two.

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[PorkChop] offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Hereford, F7, GB | 1 year, 9 months ago (2 hours, 26 minutes after post)

I honestly think thats impossible
Love is a special thing
It cant just be tossed around between people
ccc

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Good ole boy offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (3 hours, 23 minutes after post)

yeah i think its definitely possible, meaning it can happen and it has has happened and is continuing to happen. but i don’t think you can be with two people at once for the rest of your life, there’s going to be a conflict between one or the other.

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mou offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
AQ | 1 year, 9 months ago (3 hours, 46 minutes after post)

Yes, it is possible to have the same amount of feelings for two people at the same time. You can’t change this because love is a reaction to a person and not a controlled emotion.

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Jose M offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (5 hours, 55 minutes after post)

I don’t think so. Now that dosn’t mean you can’t have feeling for two people at once, but that is different. Lust happens every day.

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mou offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
AQ | 1 year, 9 months ago (11 hours, 10 minutes after post)

Anthrax wrote:
Sure, why not… Lets all love one another…

This is either really sweet or very creepy.

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ScreaminglyWonderful offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
Wilmington, NC, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (17 hours, 1 minute after post)

yes I think it is possible to love more than one person at a time…. the world is a huge place, to expect only one person (a soul mate) to be the only one to ever meet your needs it naive in my opinion. If you are referring to a cyber-crush I find that often we attribute qualities to our online friends that we have ourselves, we project our motives as theirs, which it why it seems to easy to find people we are compatible with online…

I suggest giving each relationship time to develop. New love is an amazing feeling but it is often replaced by other emotions as time passes…. give yourself and each of your relationships space to evolve into being or not… hope that helps.;-)

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Maximina offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 day, 14 hours after post)

Being in love is a rare thing, so I think the chances of finding two people whom you fall in love with at the same time is unlikely, not impossible, but unlikely. I think is more likely to be infatuated or in strong like of two people at the same time. I believe many people go there whole lives without ever knowing what it is trualy like to be in love. Most people settle for strong like, because they are afraid to be alone.
Anthrax, it is both creepy and sweet!

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (2 days, 4 hours after post)

I think it is possible to love many people, everyone maybe, but I don’t think you can be “in love” with more than 1 person, who knows. I love lots of people and love them all differently, you can’t have the same feelings for one person and have the exact ones for someone else too, even if it feels similar it is not the same.

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Servitude and Solace offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (4 days, 4 hours after post)

i dont believe you cn and if you think that you can
then you havent found love
when you find it and feel it you will know
youll kow their is no greater feeling and thnat that feeling cannot exist between you and more than one very special person

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 206 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (4 days, 10 hours after post)

i have found love. how would you know? i wasnt asking for judgement.i was asking you to answer the question. a simple would have sufficed.

to everyone else-thankyou so much for your kind words and thought out answers, i very much appreciate it.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (4 days, 10 hours after post)

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