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i got a question and i dont know if anyone can help

me but recently my bf broke up with actually it was in april while i was sick well he said he didnt have feelings for me anymore but i know he still does then he sends me a email saying for me to forget him. me and him are friends but he is the first guy im seriously in love with i dont want to lose him as a friend now to i just cant stop loving him and im really hurt and heart broken i w ont give up on him cause i still think me and him will get back together. I s there any advice anyone can give me to help with this.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

u should talk to him and maybe try going out again see if u have feelings for him

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Dubai, 03, AE | 2 years, 1 month ago (48 minutes after post)

I am experiencing a similar situation, it’s really difficult, unrequited love with a god friend, that is a double dose of sadness, losing a friend and geting a brokenheart

You are friends, so you know how you both feel about each other, talk to him, that is the only way to find a solution. But you also have to respect his decision if he insists that you should leave him alone, even if you feel he still has feelings for you.

Give him some time on his own, if he really feels the way you think he does, he will be back, but you have to be prepared to move on, if he does not come back.

Life is just full of these situations, you can’t control his actions but you can try to keep your friendship by respecting his decision, you can’t force a person into relationship, so try to remain friends.

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Radlett, M1, GB | 2 years ago (1 month after post)

my experience with this is with enough space and free time to miss you, if you really are meant to be together he will come back, but he has to miss you first. Thats what has happened with me for my ex, and even my ex for me, tho shes gay so we aint gettin back. But with enough space he’ll miss you, and realise what he’s lost.
Dont try to stay friends or he’ll still have you around anytime he wants, and wont feel like he’s lost something special. Try to get out more with your other friends and get involved with other interests to keep you busy.
Tho if you find a way of getting over him get back to me, i know it isnt easy

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