Join the dating service and be the next girl he’s supposed to meet and then ask him if he was telling the truth.
Thanx Michael, I do however not know which one it was, as the message only came through with her details and a freaking long *** number. So just wanted to know if you also think he is taking a fat chance by denying this????
Hmm. Maybe he’s being truthful. Things are done by mistake (I’ve gotten so many emails from “dating websites”, I’ve never signed up for one or expressed interest in dating to anyone.) Or he’s lying. If he’s lying then he might only have kept lying because he didn’t know how to turn around and tell the truth. Or he’s looking to date other people and must keep that secret from you? (sorry I don’t know, I just thought my first idea was fairly clever.)
Very clever. Yip lots of maybees in this story. Only really bad thing is we are supposed to get married in October and we stay together. So if he wants to date other people, he should really just open his mouth before it is too late…
The other thing I’ve noticed is that some people are faced with many tempting situations before a marriage (consider bachelor parties with naked dancers). I don’t know who sets up these situations, I always assumed it was the people to be married themselves, but maybe it is just as much outside forces.
The thing with mobile phones though is that it is better protected than internet, that is why I thought that he would have had to send a text message from his phone to get one? He has messed around before so trust is not very strong from my side. You are right however, people are always digging around in other peoples relationships and such. Always trying to cause trouble, I just do not believe that they will get it right if you do not let them.
I’ve signed up for several things that required my cell-phone number… they could easily have sold it to anyone. If he has messed around before it is more likely he’s lying but in that case it’s unfortunate that it ended with the anger rather than coming to honesty and retrust in each other. I think even in really good marriages people have their doubts and hate each other and have to find out a way to work it out and trust again.
You are right. It may have been a mistake from their side. Just wish I knew for sure. I like that you have an open & trusting view on relationships. Helps to put me into perspective.
I don’t actually understand why someone would “cheat” on the person who is most important to them … but I know it happens all the time. It could be he doesn’t know that he’s endangering the most important thing in his life. Boys play with army toys and girls play with doll — how could a man know anything of importance except by learning about things he’s pressured not to learn about? I know that’s a stereotype, but there are significant differences in people’s knowledge.
That is very true. I just think a lot of people do not know what is actually important in this life. Love is number one, when you are dead and buried no-one is going to miss you for the things you could do for them. They should miss you for the love you gave them. As I said though, I am glad that there are men out there that are insightful. It just gives me hope.
call the number….. i would… however… think about it.. you have to go through a process to get this to go onto your mobile phone… it doesnt just happen… you can actually go on the computer and into his account and find out all the numbers that are being called… (i use to be a mobile phone operator..).. check it out.. you will be surprised at what you find…
he was caught, if you are planning to marry? him please think on it hard. because of the WAY he reacted, at some point he needs to act likea man and not a little boy. his anger will get worse unless he learns to deal with it and not suppress it untill it blows. rob:-)
I always get random text messages and phone calls on my cell from companies. Nothing like a dating thing, but sometimes SPAM does happen on a cell… Give him the benefit of the doubt, but also do what lil_bit said… :) I know it’s been some time, I wonder if you got this resolved…
hi your mobile number please i want friendship with you
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