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My best friend stopped being my friend because I sent

crazy e-mails to him pretending to be his other g-friend I never told him the truth but I think he knows We work together and he talks to me and try to be friendly but I know we are not friends anymore. what should I do I want him back. Please do not say move on and forget about him, that is what everyone tell me.

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dibbhead06 offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

i think that even tho u think he does not no go up too him and tell him it was you and that you are sorry and try to make it up with him even tho it will be hard it is wat u have to do if u want him back

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cattail offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Newark, NJ, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (29 minutes after post)

I agree, if you think he knows and you want to remain friends, you should probably ‘fess up to it and ask forgiveness. He probably didn’t find the little joke too amusing or find that to be what a good friend would do to him. Maybe he just knows by now that someone played this joke on him, and you’re a prime suspect right now.

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Cookie Dough! offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Kensington, G4, GB | 9 months, 1 week ago (34 minutes after post)

It sounds like a really odd thing to do. Smile at him whenever you see him and stop by his desk, etc.. Then ask him to lunch to talk to him, simple as that. Tell him why you did it, or if you don’t know why, tell him that too. Grovel like crazy and I guess the rest is up to him.

The fact that you work together means that he’ll have to speak to you eventually and hopefully you’ll be able to smooth things over and make up. One thing though: Do be patient and don’t expect him to forgive you straight away. It may take time to rebuild that trust. Best of luck :)

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