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AnishK
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I’m leaving this site again.

And this time, it’s not because of the mods/admins. Nope. It’s because of normal users. Yup. Long story, can’t really shorten it, but someone on this site had a bone to pick with me, and told his/her friends about it. I don’t see the point in using Help.com if some people just can’t be helped. Oh well. I don’t know how long I’ll be gone this time… maybe forever? Maybe…
I just don’t understand why everyone is pitted against me. No one takes me seriously when I am and when I’m not that serious, people take me too seriously. That’s my life. It happens outside of this site, too. It’s just bullshit. ********. I get a face full of it every day. I mean, why? Is it because I’m young? Is it because I’m Indian? Or maybe because I’m a Commie? Or even because I’m smarter than most, and they hate that? Nah, I think it’s just because my life is just shitty that way, because in this world, it’s a Dog Eat Dog policy. Equality is something I’ve always believed in. I don’t see that anymore.
I don’t know when I’ll be back, but probably when I see change.
I know the admins/mods/bureaucrats are going to close this post, so I don’t think there’s a point in replying. Then again, no one reads my posts, so it’s all good.
Love,
AnishK ♥
P.S. - Does anybody know another good help site… maybe one that’s more… what’s the word… socialist?

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Setto. offline Verified User (5 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 2 months ago (0 minutes after post)

who will i debate politics with???

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Just Lyza offline Verified User (5 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 2 months ago (1 minute after post)

we’ll miss you. =[

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (5 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 5 years, 2 months ago (2 minutes after post)

its not you hun… its those who are immature… those who need to find someone to pick on for their own benefits… sad really… to force someone off from this site just because they are bored… you can actually contact a mod and have it where these people can not leave you comments or shouts.. if they do.. they get banned..

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☠wUt☠ offline Verified User (5 years, 10 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 2 months ago (5 minutes after post)

no its him adios

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mou offline Verified User (5 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
AQ | 5 years, 2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Whatever you see fit.

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Wrestlemaniac!!! offline Verified User (5 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
Drayton Plains, MI, US | 5 years, 2 months ago (9 minutes after post)

hey man ill hope u will be back soon see ya!:(

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Rosabella offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 2 months ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

How weird! I like what you write. I think you’re one of the best contributors. And the fact that you’re Indian only makes it better! I think it must be a case of jealousy. Some people are “threatened” when they think someone’s smarter than they are. I really wish you would stay. In the meantime, I’ve left you my address.

♥ Florie

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Anonymous #
5 years, 2 months ago (2 hours, 53 minutes after post)

well i think it’s because you need to relax!

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issybelle offline Verified User (5 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 2 months ago (3 hours, 3 minutes after post)

“Or even because I’m smarter than most, and they hate that?”

i don’t think it’s you brains honey, i think it’s your attitude

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Fizz offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 2 months ago (18 hours, 19 minutes after post)

You said that people either don’t take you serious or take you to serious. I think maybe it’s your reaction, maybe you take things here to seriously.

Everyone is not pitted against you, I know this to be true because, I am not pitted against you.

I wish you well and I hope that you feel better about things soon.

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Nightowl offline Verified User (5 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 2 months ago (23 hours, 2 minutes after post)

Hope to see you back soon. Ignore people like THAT. They have no life, they are losers who have to make you feel bad because someone else made them feel like ****. Maybe their parents, maybe their spouse, maybe some jerk they used to know. But Its not your fault, you didn’t do anything to anybody. I remember a Taoist poem that may help you (it helped me)

“A man who concurs others has force.
But a man who concurs himself is strong.”

And the people who kicked you while you were down have to live their lives filled with hate, most of it for themselves. Pity them, don’t even try to reason with them, they are not in the right frame of mind.

And yes…I’m back for now.

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☠wUt☠ offline Verified User (5 years, 10 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 2 months ago (23 hours, 18 minutes after post)

they always come back why say you’re even leaving if your just going to come back just stay away

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 5 years, 2 months ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

I get people who have said horrible things to me on here, i usually ignore then and tell the moderators.

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Fizz offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 2 months ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

spiritedsoul wrote:
I get people who have said horrible things to me on here, i usually ignore then and tell the moderators.

Oh so your a snitch……lol…… just teasing!

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hockeymaniac500 offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 2 months ago (3 weeks, 3 days after post)

I hope you come back soon

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 5 years, 2 months ago (3 weeks, 3 days after post)

Fizz wrote:

spiritedsoul wrote:
I get people who have said horrible things to me on here, i usually ignore then and tell the moderators.

Oh so your a snitch……lol…… just teasing!

:) well, if I feel they have been out of order, i will tell on them! hahahaha!

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Fizz offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 2 months ago (3 weeks, 3 days after post)

spiritedsoul wrote:

Fizz wrote:
spiritedsoul wrote:
I get people who have said horrible things to me on here, i usually ignore then and tell the moderators.

Oh so your a snitch……lol…… just teasing!

:) well, if I feel they have been out of order, i will tell on them! hahahaha!

I was teasing, I do the same thing when neccessary.

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 5 years, 2 months ago (3 weeks, 3 days after post)

oh really? ever done on me by any chance????!!

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Fizz offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 2 months ago (3 weeks, 3 days after post)

Get outta here, why would I? I am very picky about my friends and you’re my bud!

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 5 years, 2 months ago (3 weeks, 3 days after post)

:) ur mine too. lol

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Anonymous #
5 years, 1 month ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

GOOD BYE

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Anonymous #
4 years, 11 months ago (3 months, 1 week after post)

I think that it is apparent that people do read your posts, and in reading some of your past posts, you bring up some interesting ideas. I don’t agree with everything you have to say, definitely, but I think you should rejoin the site just for some good intellectual banter.

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unknown123456789 offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

im sorry that you feel the way you feel…people treat me wrong too..but you cant let people get to you…most folk bully around talk crap bout people because they might have a messed up life and there picking on others so that they can make you feel like crap too and satisfy themselfs..i know how you feel…people dont take me seriously either when i was younger…also people might pick on you because maybe they are jealous…and the next time when some one picks on you and dont take you seriously just ignore it…they are not important…most of them are probably very childish…just move on and dont worry about what others say…also you say that you are leaving…that just show the people that pick on you know that they got to you

i know that sucks

angela

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tommyabc offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 8 months ago (6 months, 1 week after post)

yahoo answers/wiki answers

don’t leave
just don’t talk do da d***** faces who are losers

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gnome417 offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (7 months, 1 week after post)

find people who like stale sarcasm

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Lucky:) offline Verified User (5 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 6 months ago (8 months after post)

aww…if u gooo byebyeeee

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FalloutFreak12 offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (10 months after post)

sad well comeback soon and hlp us!!

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lil night owl offline Verified User (3 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (1 year, 5 months after post)

I’m new, but I’m sorry you’re going through that.

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>Anonymous< offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 7 months ago (1 year, 7 months after post)

Hey… its my first time on. and i just happened to read your post over many. Is this website that bad?

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starchet offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (2 years, 6 months after post)

U Quit? man….

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☠wUt☠ offline Verified User (5 years, 10 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (2 years, 6 months after post)

haaaaaaaaaaaa I was right, he never left

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Anonymous #
2 years, 8 months ago (2 years, 7 months after post)

yeah don’t sweat the small stuff or the small people.

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11kristennoe offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (2 years, 8 months after post)

~Shie~ wrote:
its not you hun… its those who are immature… those who need to find someone to pick on for their own benefits… sad really… to force someone off from this site just because they are bored… you can actually contact a mod and have it where these people can not leave you comments or shouts.. if they do.. they get banned..

I agree. Immature people realy get on my nerves.

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~FlutterBy~ offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (3 years after post)

I am sorry you left. You seem a passionate person. I hope you come back one day.

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Noscrubs0 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (3 years, 6 months after post)

The Internet is like this, full of assholes.

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lairm offline Verified User (5 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Sheridan, OR, US | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (4 years, 4 months after post)

If you return then send a hi my way. You seem like someone who would have interesting things to say.

either way, a lot of people don’t have the skills to have conversations on certain topics. You probably ran into them.

you’re being here matters to a lot of people, it matters to me.

please don’t leave the people who do appreciate you because of the people who don’t. That kind of guarantees that you wont be appreciated doesn’t it?

Well… hope to hear from you. : )

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stalins666 offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (5 years after post)

miss u

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