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so my x bf is dating my friend and i’m not sure i’m

over him and he and her are actually acting like thay are together and the thing is i don’t know how to get rid of my crush over him. I want to get over him but can’t, i need help on getting rid of him.

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Vince.Omeg offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 9 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

Go out with some friends and have a good time? That usually does it. He’s not yours anymore so anything having to do with him shouldn’t be any of your business.

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knyghtsbabygir offline Unverified User #
US | 9 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

gurl im having the same problem but he cut me 4 her its hard

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jadechappui offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Salt Lake City, UT, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

but i just can’t stop caring about him

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jadechappui offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Salt Lake City, UT, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

why is girls lives so hard but for boys they don’t care

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Vince.Omeg offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 9 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

Yeah, you can. You gotta to let go of the past. He’s moved on, you should too.

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jadechappui offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Salt Lake City, UT, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

i’ve tried i also like this other boy and i want to let go of the past but it just keeps on grabbing hold of me and won’t let go. it just thinks i’ll be fine, but i’m not fine it haunts me it just does and so it’s so hard for me to get rid of my past.also if i tell my friends i’m scared that they will laugh and joke around. i want to cry real hard. I can feel the tears right now.

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knyghtsbabygir offline Unverified User #
US | 9 months, 1 week ago (17 minutes after post)

mine just recently happened we were at the skating rink and he had his hand all up her skirt so i said 2 can play that game and i messes wit his friend he got mad and cut me like it was okay 4 him 2 do it but not me i didnt care at the time and i said i wouldnt loose any sleep or cry but i couldnt sleep that night and i sllept wit his shirt

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knyghtsbabygir offline Unverified User #
US | 9 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

i was gon slap him but you have 2 let ur self be around him and date other people think of the positive things like ur free now you can look at other boys u can do as u please and all

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Vince.Omeg offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 9 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

(You sound just like someone I know.)

I had a friend who was going through the same thing you are. She was with this guy for like 6 years or so. Then all of a sudden this guy starts talking this girl he’s going to school with. One thing lead to another and boom, he’s cheating on her. She had the same feelings you’re going through but there comes a time when you have to let go. If you don’t you’re only going to feel into a self hating cycle of negativity.

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knyghtsbabygir offline Unverified User #
US | 9 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

ok like i said the positive things

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jadechappui offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Salt Lake City, UT, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (24 minutes after post)

why is it so hard. I wish it was so easy to let go of things you don’t want to but have to I want to tell him how i feel. but you don’t know this boy. smartest kid in school, sporty, popular. and he laughs at things you don’t mean to say. even though t hurts you inside. I tell myself practicaly everyday he’s not worth my tears. I know i’m right i just can’t can’t help it.

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Vince.Omeg offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 9 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

It seems like your basing your feelings based on his status. You should spend more time evaluating yourself and learning to love yourself for who you are. Then the stuff you mentioned wouldn’t matter as much.

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jadechappui offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Salt Lake City, UT, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (29 minutes after post)

thanx i’m glad i found this website.

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knyghtsbabygir offline Unverified User #
US | 9 months, 1 week ago (30 minutes after post)

gurl 4 get about him not trying 2 be mean but if he doesnt want you move on you cant keep crying about him move on find somebody better!!!!

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jadechappui offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Salt Lake City, UT, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (32 minutes after post)

how many bfs have you had, i had only one and that was him

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knyghtsbabygir offline Unverified User #
US | 9 months, 1 week ago (37 minutes after post)

a lot thats how i know wat im doing

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jadechappui offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Salt Lake City, UT, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (38 minutes after post)

oh i’ve only had one and so that’s why i don’t want to give him up

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knyghtsbabygir offline Unverified User #
US | 9 months, 1 week ago (39 minutes after post)

u need a new one

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jadechappui offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Salt Lake City, UT, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (39 minutes after post)

i wish but it’s hard to get a guy how do i get one

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knyghtsbabygir offline Unverified User #
US | 9 months, 1 week ago (48 minutes after post)

you look for one you think is attractive and you talk 2 him you get 2 know him alittle than you get his number and maybe plan a date but be careful cuz looks can be decieving

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knyghtsbabygir offline Unverified User #
US | 9 months, 1 week ago (50 minutes after post)

ok

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jadechappui offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Salt Lake City, UT, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

ya but what if he’s not interested in me and I look like a total fool

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knyghtsbabygir offline Unverified User #
US | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

see thats why you dont show him ur interested until you see he is

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