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yoko_crysta
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]= I started going out with my boyfriend on valentines day.

It was awesome[:
But then its slowly going downhill. There was drama because people kept telling me I was 2nd. I knew he liked my bestfriend for a looonnnggg time & i told him i liked him so the next day he asked me out. But he said I wasn’t 2nd. Soo I was like okay [: But then today a lot of people, again keep telling me these things like “oh he doesn’t like you thats why he treats you horribly” I guess maybe hes a bad boyfriend, I call him but he never calls me. He’s not affectionate at all & we hardly talk out of school. And today I asked him about that and he said lets just take it slow and like just hang out. Sounded like he was breaking up with me but he said hes not. :| What do you think??

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 378 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (15 minutes after post)

mabye hes just nervous

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serenabrad offline Unverified User #
Philadelphia, PA, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (16 minutes after post)

hi i feel so sorry for you…i think u should tell him wat the other ppl were saying and maybe he will answer u the right way…..

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yoko_crysta offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Honolulu, HI, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

I did tell him what the others think and how i feel, which is like he doesn’t really care. And he was just like “oh thats what you think?..” and i doubt hes nervous we’ve already kissed & hes done more than me. Like I have only kissed and hes french kissed etc ):

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yoko_crysta offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Honolulu, HI, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (4 hours, 51 minutes after post)

I don’t really want to do that ask him straight out :\ I think Im bothering him i keep asking that. I really like him ): and a lot of the people that’re telling me all that stuff about him not actually liking me are good friends with him but at the same time they also like me..

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ceecee301 offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Astoria, NY, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (7 hours, 38 minutes after post)

sounds like your boyfriend isn’t sure about your relationship it’s something that he has to do decide you need to back off and wait and see whats his next move just let him know that you are there if he wants to talk to you but don’t make him talk to you and i know that you are interested in what he is thinking stop going by what people are saying if you push him to much you may lose him even as a friend …good luck

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x-amy offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
AU | 9 months, 1 week ago (2 days after post)

Excatly why are you still with him? Look after yourself don’t let men treat you like that they have no right to do that! Relationship works both ways 50/50 not you doing all the work! Id get rid of him if i were you!

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