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How do I move on?

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I just broke up with my girlfriend because of various reasons (I caught her sitting in another guy’s lap, and she happened to have met this guy like 20 minutes before). But all I think about is her still. All the fun we had, all the time we spent together, its all I can think about. She broke my heart and I still can’t stop thinking about her. How do I move on. How do I stop thinking about her.

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Narcissus offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

Sometimes you have to smile, pretend every things Ok
Hold back the tears, and just walk… away…

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9 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

I’m not crying or even that sad. I just can’t stop thinking about her. I hate her, yet I still love her.

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Ditzy offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Ventura, CA, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

that will stop - trust me - you just need to keep busy and stopping thinking of her! start a project or set a goal. Also remember its ok to cry :) so long as after youve finished crying you pick yourself up again and continue forward in life :)

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crazyG offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 171 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (10 hours, 19 minutes after post)

I think you might have done the right thing. Bc the girl seems she likes to have fun more than she cares about you. And you will move on. Time cures everything or most of things probably especially emotional pain. Well you might get over her completely when you find another girl that is better….Just have fun and enjoy life, don’t think about bad things…

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theresape offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Waltham, MA, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (18 hours, 32 minutes after post)

Assuming that all she was doing was sitting in a friendly fashion, I think she deserves a second chance.

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