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AmandaSeliga
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Calgary, AB, CA

A new girl came into the school this year, and we became

best friends, our moms were friends, we were friends and our siblings became friends, we had a sleepover every weekend, and hung out all the time at school. but now i see that i need to start spending more time with my other friends, because spending so much time with her is wrecking my other realationships, i started doing this but now she is acusing me of never hanging out with her and ignoring her, even though she always hangs out with all her friends, how do i tell her that i need more time for myself and for my other friends? or do i just put up with it? what do i do?

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xxxburningflowerxxx offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

just explain it like that, your glad your friends but you need more time to your self cuz you have others friend besides her. but out it more nicely

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AmandaSeliga offline Verified User (9 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Calgary, AB, CA | 9 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

i tryed, and she said she understood, but she kept doing it, and whenever i want to hang out with people without her because we all know she hates them, she just shows up, and i would feel bad telling her to go away….

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nextstar offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (7 hours, 37 minutes after post)

Try to introduce her to you friends & hang out all together

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crazyG offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 171 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (10 hours, 29 minutes after post)

If you are really having feeling annoyed with what she is doing, then you can put some space between you two. Start not inviting her so much and start spending less time with her. You don’t have to be mean to her or anything. No, be nice to her all the time and so,and stay friends but just gain some space for yourself too to spend with your friends. Maybe ask your self why could she spend time with herself and you not. What does she do and you don’t do?…

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theresape offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Waltham, MA, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (18 hours, 12 minutes after post)

Is there some reason you can’t introduce her into your circle of friends?

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AmandaSeliga offline Verified User (9 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Calgary, AB, CA | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 day after post)

i have tryed, but she doesnt get along with them….

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shelbylynnfarme offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Calgary, AB, CA | 9 months ago (4 days, 17 hours after post)

Amanda, You never told me that you wanted time to your other friends, you just yell at me and tell me that I think stuff that is not true.

You should just tell me nicely and I would have backed off.

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AmandaSeliga offline Verified User (9 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Calgary, AB, CA | 9 months ago (4 days, 17 hours after post)

no, u would of gotten mad

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shelbylynnfarme offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Calgary, AB, CA | 9 months ago (4 days, 17 hours after post)

Not if you said it nicely, instead you sent me a mean E-mail saying rude things that really mad me feel bad.

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