girl help: do guys feel like they have to build a friendship up with a girl before they can tell them their feelings?

xxirlcixx

do guys feel like they have to build a friendship up with a girl before they can tell them their feelings?

i mean in some ways it makes sense and helps with their accountability and such..
but would a guy who doesnt have a friendship built up with a girl just go out of their way to talk to that girl?

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Setto? 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (0 minutes after post)

depends on the guy really.
and who the girl is.

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xxirlcixx 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (2 minutes after post)

but generally would an average guy just go up to a girl??
or does he have to see that they have some of the same interests maybe friends.. idk

emc031 0 #
Milngavie, U5, GB | 1 year, 9 months ago (2 minutes after post)

in my experience, most of the time - yes.

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Setto? 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (3 minutes after post)

well a lot of people these days are scared to talk to people they don’t know.

but if a guy ‘likes’ a girl then he might.

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xxirlcixx 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (5 minutes after post)

yeah..im an intimidating girl though..for the most part the type of guys i like do not come up and talk to me because i am intimidating and confident and i know that im attractive ( not the most attractive you know but confident)..
so i feel that scares them away
bc theres this guy and i know this is lame a 20 y/o girl saying this but im shy with guys that i like bc im used to being @ the club or something bc thats where i work and where i used to work so its hard..esp when the guy isnt the type to go out to clubs and such

Setto? 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (7 minutes after post)

well if you don’t think he’s going to approach you, you need to approach him before someone else grabs him instead.

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xxirlcixx 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (14 minutes after post)

yeah..im kind of shy lol i figured i would need to..everyone tells me i should go for it but… i kinda stand back…he doesnt know at all

it would be better if some how he did but thats not how things work so i gotta start moving huh?!

serenabrad #
Philadelphia, PA, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (35 minutes after post)

yes they do there is this 1 guy who is always staring at me and we r really goood friends so just give him time

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zaphod 5 #
Erie, PA, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 hour, 53 minutes after post)

A man doesn’t share his emotions because he is fearful of rejection. If a woman rejects a man, it will destroy him inside. She says “oh we can just be friends” or something… is okay if she is single but if she is closer to another man that sucks. If a man tells you up front he loves you… it gives you power to play with him, and go after another man and take his love for granted. At least that is what he believes. I actually think it is okay to say to a woman how you feel… there is nothing to lose. If you do not… you may lose everything.

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xerlyn #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 week after post)

Depends on how smooth the guy is.

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Starfor #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

friendship always helps, but it isn’t always neccicary.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

i am awesome and so bloody sexy

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da_one_and_only_pink #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

go for it babe. i go for it all the time, seriously, just wrap your leg around him and smile. yaya im hot.

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