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tatsukiishi
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i moved and switched schools a few months back, and i had a hard time finding new friends, until i met this guy…

he seemed sweet and had a great sense of humor and we clicked almost automaticaly, but lately things have changed. He’s become over-bearing and it’s almost scary how angry he gets when i talk to other guys. he’ll yell at the other guy and say “stop flirting with my almost girlfriend”(i dont date). I dont know how much i trust/ “like” this boy anymore, but i feel ditching him would be a bad idea, and advice?

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mundi01 offline Unverified User #
Ashland, OR, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (6 minutes after post)

You said you feel like ditching him would be a bad idea, I don’t know **** so I could be wrong but to me that sounds like the first sign of an abusive relationship. That said, Chances are he’s afraid of you losing interest in him and going for another guy, So by saying that He’s marking his territory. It’s purely male instinct of him saying to his friends: This one is mine, Although to you it might seem like an angry or scary gesture, chances are he’s not crazy and he’s a good guy. But hell, If your gut feels that he’s an ******* you want to break up with go for it.

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Mezz offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Longreach, 04, AU | 1 year, 9 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Wow, if ur not even dating him and he is like this. Imagine what he’d be like if you did. Id probably keep my distance a little, enough so that he acknowledges that ur not an item at least. Sounds a little scary

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shol'vah offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Anchorage, AK, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (36 minutes after post)

I’d tell him to back off, if he doesn’t then ditch him and never look back. Always try the diplomatic approach first if possible I think.

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waterpolo00 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Los Angeles, CA, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (38 minutes after post)

not everybody really shows their true self to somebody they just met. but i guess it must have been a shock to see him react like that since he’s only been a good guy. you just want to be safe with this guy and maybe he should really know what your relationship situation is

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