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**** straight

wow, that was depressing…

nah come on, you know that ain’t true
we’re all just people

It would be easy to summarise both sexes like this - I think that if you dwell on such a minimalist view of the differences, then all the satisfaction you can get from relationships will just pass you by, making you feel this way even more and sending you into a cycle of women-hating. This post makes a huge generalisation about womankind, which I appreciate, but it is also very simplistic and fails to acknowledge any of the good points.

May I ask what has provoked you to feel this way and post this?

he got dumped by his girlfriend and now he has to complain about it like…well…the bi*ch that dumped him!

I’ve been single for two years and it seems like women always head for the stereotypically attractive guy. Jerks, who treat them like trash, meat-heads with zero brains, guys who blah blah blah, but never say anything. Girls who talk about our future, and then days later run after some loser who bought her a few more flowers.

My favorite thing to do on Valentines Day is break up.

lulz

♥
*kiss*

Have you considered maybe it is the type of women you are pursuing that end up doing these things? It may seem like all of womenkind do this, because in your experience they have, but I promise you I have never done anything like that. This probably doesn’t mean much to you, because we are complete strangers, but I am trying to demonstrate that there are thoughtful women out there, who mean what they say, and do not run off with ‘the next best thing’. Hang in there - you will find someone right for you. Try not to force things - maybe go outside of your comfort zone, or for a different ‘type’ of girl. Things might work better next time, you never really know until you try, but make sure you remain positive about things otherwise your negativity will spread and sour the relationship before it has even began. Good luck.

the last time a chick was a bi*ch to me, she said she hated me, so i said in a luvy duvy voice “hate you too, baby”

how old are you baconator?

take the gettysburg address and subtract it by E=MC2

I’m assuming 12 years old, purely from the username.

Thanks, Lillian.

Your “veil” is thick. ;)

I find that most men who complain about the girls who go for the stereotypical girl who always goes for the meat-head jerk, are the guys who go for the popular bikini model type (which is really the female version of that meat-head guy.)

Try going for “real” girls who are down to earth and nerdy and have just as many insecurities as you do. You’ll find that you’ll stop having the same problems.

Thanks, I’ll take that one as a compliment. I don’t take kindly to people who don’t give constructive criticsm or advice to people who need it, and Baconator’s comment shortly after mine was really of no help to you. Glad I could be of service.

I totally agree with Nyx! Maybe if guys stopped going after the “female version of the meat-head guy” and started looking around at all of us regular girls, you’d find a whole bunch of really nice, fun girls that are looking for the same things you are. Not all of us are bad, so don’t lump us in with the bad apples. I don’t want to play games any more than you guys do. I’d be super happy to just be treated nicely, with respect and caring.
But on the flip side, it just seems like all you guys want is a super hot girlfriend. Don’t claim its not true because if you saw two girls in a bar who were friends and one of them was super hot and the other kind of plain, who would you want to approach? I’ve seen it dozens of times. The guys go up to the hot friend and ignore the plain one. Or worse, they’ll talk to the plain one to see if they’ll hook them up with their hot friend. (I’m not talking about the guys that just want a one-night stand either).
Ok, went on a rant…..
But the point is, if you’re having trouble with women, try and remember that we’re having trouble finding you too. Maybe you should try dating outside your usual preferences and see who you find!

lillian.torell wrote:
I’m assuming 12 years old, purely from the username.

username isnt my DOB. only idiots but their DOB in their username. im 15 and high on sugar

That’s a good way to be.. just try and make your advice and comments more helpful in future and it will help everyone out..

Moogan wrote:
Don’t claim its not true because if you saw two girls in a bar who were friends and one of them was super hot and the other kind of plain, who would you want to approach?

That might be true for the majority, but I’d totally go for the ‘plain’ one.

This might sound bad, but I’m not even attracted to girls who would normally be considered ’super hot’. IE: Jessica Alba does nothing for me. This is probably because I don’t think I’d ever be able to get with them, so I have a self defense mechanism set up. The plain girls, the ones with imperfections, the “obtainable” ones… they’re the ones I fall for.

But you are right, I’ll try to date outside my comfort zone in the future… if there is any dating in my future.

Seems a bit unfair to lable all females just by the ones you have met, not everyone is the same you know.
If I labled men through just the ones I have met then I would have something simialr to say as you but I know that the small percentage I have met does not average the whole male population to be the same.

i’m glad we have arranged marriages and then are forced to stick withe the same man whether we like him or not for the sake of the family, but lately the stupid west has been putting an end to that practice by liberating our women.. oh for the good old days

PomPom wrote:
i’m glad we have arranged marriages and then are forced to stick withe the same man whether we like him or not for the sake of the family, but lately the stupid west has been putting an end to that practice by liberating our women.. oh for the good old days

GTFO

lol