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ps.

just wanted to mention this while i am on today.

I am reading some of the posts and drama and things that went on over the last, what, week or 2 that i have not been signing in, and i realized a terrible bias. A blind spot, really, in peoples perceptions

Did you know, i mean reallly know, that just because someone never talks about it, never uses it to shut down someone elses argument, never brings it up to prove a point, that it is possible that person was molested at a young age..’

heck, did you know that it dont even have to be a female to have been molested

I see, far too often, someone change how they are relating to someone here, or in real life, just because the person in question throws out that they were molested.

guess what…that fact lends no weight to your argument, opinions, stance, beliefs or likability.
oh, and before you get too **** loud, i was molested as a child,. and anyone here who knows me well, knows this.

peace, you mothertruckers

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Fizz offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

Thank you for saying that, some pretty bold judgements have been made here this past week and I thought it rather rude to make such judgements and statements about others with such limited knowledge of them.

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DaNi♠HaTes♠You offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
Parsonsburg, MD, US | 6 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

Brian, is this another trick question? why are you torturing me like this?

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BDH_Logistics offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Cape Coral, FL, US | 6 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

its bad for me, since all the participating parties are friends,. and i did not see or follow every bit of it

sucks..everyone should just come work for me, and that would sove everything..cause no one would have time for Help.com, hahaha

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DaNi♠HaTes♠You offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
Parsonsburg, MD, US | 6 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

Well, I didn’t do it

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Fizz offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

Do you give on the job training and what’s your starting pay? hehe

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BDH_Logistics offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Cape Coral, FL, US | 6 months, 1 week ago (17 minutes after post)

its commision work, and the great thing is you pay me to train you..yay

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Jade offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (27 minutes after post)

well said Brian….I have seen it done just as you wrote. People treat others different for that reason and others, I have witnessed it firsthand.

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Fizz offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (37 minutes after post)

That does sound great for you, but doesn’t really work for me.

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BDH_Logistics offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Cape Coral, FL, US | 6 months, 1 week ago (38 minutes after post)

really, last saturday i was training a guy,. training pay for that day was around 80 dollars cash..and we each made 65 in tips..it was a good day

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Fizz offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (40 minutes after post)

So what exactly do you do anyway?

Or would that be better left for another time, instead of straying off topic.

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BDH_Logistics offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Cape Coral, FL, US | 6 months, 1 week ago (42 minutes after post)

another time, perhaps.

basically, i manage a delivery company, but that is an oversimplification in the extreme, haha

and i was out of work for almost 5 months cause of the stroke

hmm, if i thought anyone really cared, maybe it would be worth a post? but i think everyone forgot me already…fickle crowd, haha

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Fizz offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (45 minutes after post)

I haven’t fogetten you in this least, I find you very interesting, but then again I don’t know you as well as some of the others, lol.

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BDH_Logistics offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Cape Coral, FL, US | 6 months, 1 week ago (1 hour after post)

not really that interesting..well, i have my moments, but ask the ones that know,. it can get real tedious trying to talkl to me when i am ON.

Fizz, i will answer anything, but it might not be right away..

email me if you want..

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BDH_Logistics offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Cape Coral, FL, US | 6 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

Nine the undead wrote:
I don’t want to talk about it.

i see, and how long have you felt this…hey, put down that knife,,,thats not a toy man…hey…HEEEYYYYY

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Fizz offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

I’ll talk later, time for me to say good evening. Later!

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Ballinteer, 07, IE | 6 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

There’s a Brain Gym in Cork apparently, was advertised on this post. http://www.braingym.ie/?gclid=CPb5hbO…

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Ballinteer, 07, IE | 6 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

WTF is brain gym :/

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BDH_Logistics offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Cape Coral, FL, US | 6 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 48 minutes after post)

worship my elephantitiseness

Hi Therapsis..

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Times' gone mad offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Silver Spring, MD, US | 6 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 16 minutes after post)

Well, somethings just make me mad…you of all people should totally know that too.

Glad that you found something else although the other thing didn’t work.

Saw the Elephant and thought the God Ganesh…remover of obstacles.

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ScreaminglyWonderful offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
Wilmington, NC, US | 6 months, 1 week ago (4 hours, 11 minutes after post)

I was on a golf course once, and there was a sign that said, “Please do not molest the alligators” -and I thought, ‘wow my step dad must have been here too’……

ahahahahahaahah, sorry I hope you won’t be offended, I have no idea what your post is about I am just ranting down here, or something, I think.

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Ell♥ online Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 351 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (11 hours, 5 minutes after post)

I’m confused. Plus i havent been up long. What are you refering too. What ‘kind’ of posts?

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Fizz offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (16 hours, 35 minutes after post)

I don’t know what post they were talking about, I was talking about a whole different post.

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BDH_Logistics offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Cape Coral, FL, US | 6 months, 1 week ago (18 hours, 3 minutes after post)

Salmon, it twernt that actually, that just got me thinking…about people RESPONSES..eh, Elephants are noble

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Ireland-1 offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 382 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (2 days after post)

Hello BDH_Logistics, it is amazing how prejudicial and stereotyping some people are, but I blame education for that, for example I am doing poetry as part of my national language and a lot of them are about being prejudicial, or other pessimistic events. So in conclusion I agree with you that it is wrong to treat someone different because of a traumatic event in their lives.

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BDH_Logistics offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Cape Coral, FL, US | 6 months ago (3 days, 5 hours after post)

thank you, very much Ireland.

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mills offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Moncks Corner, SC, US | 6 months ago (3 days, 13 hours after post)

my favorite 4 letter word begins with f and ends with k

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Times' gone mad offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Silver Spring, MD, US | 6 months ago (3 days, 16 hours after post)

BDH_Logistics wrote:
Salmon, it twernt that actually, that just got me thinking…about people RESPONSES..eh, Elephants are noble

People’s responses? How obtuse. If you want to pour salt, maybe just do it.

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jenlong offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (3 months, 3 weeks after post)

Ireland, I think that you are right. Too bad it still happens.

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Ireland-1 offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 382 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (4 months after post)

Thank you jenlong, it is a pity all right that the education system still teaches us to be prejudice, however they are easing up and trying to turn this around but as long as they pick sad poems and other prejudicial poems nothing will change.

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