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I keep thinking a harmless guy will hurt me.

It’s paranoia how can i stop myself from feeling like this when Im around him?

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The Chronicler offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Newcastle Under Lyme, N4, GB | 1 year, 9 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Well, you probably think of him as very strong, or you wouldn’t think he’d hurt you. So, you have to imagine him using his strength not to hurt you, but to protect you.

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1 year, 9 months ago (40 minutes after post)

thanks, that helps abit. I also think he’d be verbally abusive towards me. I’m nervous round him because he knows im a vulnerable adult and fear he’d exploit that.

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jcd offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (44 minutes after post)

Has he done something to make you feel this way toward him? Or do you just feel this way about people in general?

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1 year, 9 months ago (47 minutes after post)

Sometimes I feel guys will hurt me.
He used to bully me at school but he apoligized and all that. I made a mistake but he forgave me for it. Thing is, that was ages ago, years ago. Im still uncomfortable if bump into him, im scared he do something to me. Like bully me, pick on me radicle me etc

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werwer offline Unverified User #
NC, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

see a doctor for your paranoia and stay away from the “harmless” guys

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