Is lying under any circumstances okay?
I’d like to know. Is lying alright if you’re trying to avoid hurting someone’s feelings or you want to keep something to yourself? Is is right to lie to your family and friends?
From little things like: does this look good on me? or from bigger things…
I want to know. I admit, I lie, do lie, have lied. I don’t think there’s anyone who really hasn’t. But is it okey? Is it right?
I don’t want to know about something like stealing and lying about it afterwards, more things that happen everyday. Disputes people have all the time. When you say things just to avoid more conflict.
Is that okay?
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Never lie- Say what you mean and mean what you say, and you’ll stay true to yourself
If one can’t be trusted with little things, they can’t be trusted with bigger things. I blelieve that it is best to try to not lie at all.
But what if it was to avoid something worse than lying?
like what?
If someone is trying to kill me and I’m hiding in your house you better lie for me!!lol
i think it is…if we didn’t lie about some things..everone would get pissed off at us if it’s not what they want to hear..and life would probably go to hell…lol
whhoooa, she talked!!!!!!!
Is this a good or bad thing??
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I tell the truth till my death, even if it brings it.
I don’t believe for one second that you can live your life without a lie, maybe someone out there has, maybe someone will say they have… I cant proove them wrong, but certainly most people will have to lie to spare someones feelings, to save someone from grief…. for inumerable reasons, in their lifetime. Idealism is one thing, but it doesnt always work out in the real world. If my friend asks me if hes lost weighgt and he is fat and the same, but hes been workin to lose weight, i will lie and say hes looking better. That will motivate him to keep going. If you can tell me to regret that, I’d like to see you justify yourself.
I think a degree of lying is okay. I mean, it’s hard to draw the line where it’s okay, and not okay. I believe it’s okay to lie about the small “how do I look?” kind of things.
And your going to tell me I suppose that you’ve done this? in real life?
If you ask for my opinion, i give an honest one, it may hurt you, but it will not hurt me.
nikkistella,
thats your dad what about your best friend. For me that would be hard to do. Could you just have said dad I miss your hair but I love you anyway? Would that have been a lie? It would have been nicer to your dad.
your welcome Aren’t Dads great!!
Its all about motives, the why ,the purpose. If its to save yourself so you wont get in trouble, Its wrong. because its wrong to NOT take responsibility for your own action.That is wrong because it places the blame the innocent.I dont think you will have a problem with this.You generally know right from wrong.It’s ts called Discernment,A Great Quality,gift to have.it has something to do with integrity.I just cant find the words right now.If you need help in understanding this,you can go to the dictionary or ask someone.Sorry,Im really tired.All the other I said is True.
no, dad’s are not great.
Some are, but not all of them.
Some suck.
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I am sorry Lyza.
haha, why are you sorry?
I wish you had a great dad
haha, thanks me too…
I had two tries at it though..guess the odds just weren’t in my favor..but what are you gonna do right…?
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thanks…lol
sulking all the time doesn’t change anything in life…
though sometimes necessary..i suppose I’ve already done my share.
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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 20 minutes after post)
The yin and the yang.All about balance :)
If I’d lose a friend if I didn’t lie, then I think I have a right to lie to them…If my friends asked me if I thought they were ugly (saying I thought they were) I would never tell them. I wouldn’t want to here that from them. I’d like support.
When people ask those things, I think that’s what they’re really looking for- support. I don’t ever want to shoot down a friend. Is that so wrong?
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