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aislingaine_1
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hi everyone…

anyone agree that this site is fab!! ryt in a previous post i said that i loved my best friend. which i sholud be able to tell him anything ryt? nope wrong. lol. so now what has happind is instead of lettin him hus me i hav restorted to being more agressive and rude. but i cant help it. weneva he is touchy feely (anyone that doesnt know wat this is > its wen all they can do is hug and be quite lovely-dovey) i turn into a ***** because i cant bare him hugging me without being able to tell him, so i have decided im doin my absolute best to stop him being friends this is goin to reli hurt but i cant stand havin him hold me without telling him i love him. Please dont say Why Dont you tell him the answer is bcuz i no im not his type. i dnt mean to sound nasty sorry!

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Hohenheim of Light offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 354 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

*cringes at “fab”*
Thats really hard to understand

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aislingaine_1 offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Manchester, I2, GB | 6 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

ok sori that means Fabulous or brillant

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Hohenheim of Light offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 354 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

i know what “fab” means, but your post is making no sense

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Help me with: As I sat in my cell, minutes trickling away, and my long awaited punishment soon coming, I was left to stew in my thoughts,
no_spo0n offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Brisbane, 04, AU | 6 months, 1 week ago (34 minutes after post)

If your gonna get rid of the friendship anyway coz you can’t tell him, what exactly have you got to lose if you do? And trust me, while someone may have (or think they have) a ‘type’, doesn’t mean that they’re never gonna consider anything outside of it.
I know you’ve probably heard this already, but if you tell him, the worst thing that can happen is ruin the friendship (which it sounds like is your intention anyway), but at least there’s a chance it won’t.

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JesusMurphy offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (38 minutes after post)

I think the creators of this site should get a Nobel Peace Prize.

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hockeymaniac500 offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (53 minutes after post)

You should tell him. Ever hear of “opposites attact”? plus like spoon said if you are going to just throw it away what would it hurt to tell him why?

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kemmy offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

I agree with no_spoon. And more so with JesusMurphy.

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Ell♥ offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 358 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (6 hours, 21 minutes after post)

Hmmm…well…if the other girls he has ben with ARE his type, why isnt he married happily every after etc?

So maybe you are his type? You never know until you try.

The only way you can find out is to try. The worst that can happen is him say no. If you act rude and agressive. You will drive him away, not only as a lover, but as a friend too.

You could lose him altogether. I think you need to re-evaluate the situation and behave in a different way towards him. OR things could get worse not better.

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