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this is the truest thing i have ever exprienced

think about the meanings of these three words

I’ll Be There.
If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick child to a hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase ” I’ll be there.” Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we’re truly present for other people, important things happen to them and us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the core of civility

I Miss You.
Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely say to each other ” I miss you.” THIS POWERFUL AFFIRMATION tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired, and loved. Consider how ecstatic you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of your workday, just to say ” I miss you.”

I Respect You/ I Trust You.
Respect and trust is another way of showing love. It conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal. This shows that you are not trying to control them, but you are free in your soul.

Maybe You’re Right.
This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring frayed emotions.The flip side to ” maybe your right” is humility of admitting maybe ” I’m wrong”. Let’s face it. When you have a heated argument with someone, all you do is cement the other’s person point of view. They, or you, will not change their stance and you run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between you. Saying “maybe you’re right” can open the door to further explore the subject, in which you may then have the opportunity to get your view across in a more rational manner.

Please Forgive Me.
Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults and failures. A person should never be ashamed to own up that they have been wrong, which is saying, in other words, that they are wiser today then they were yesterday.

I Thank You
Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don’t take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.

Count On Me
A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating “you can count on me.”

Let Me Help.
The best of friends see a need and try to fill it.When they spot a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and help.

Go For It
We are all unique individuals. Don’t try to get your friends to conform to your ideas. Support them in pursuing their interest, no matter how weird they seem to you. Everyone has dreams, dreams that are unique to that person only. Support and encourage your friends to follow their dreams. Tell them to “go for it.”

I Love You
Perhap THE MOST IMPORTANT THREE WORDS THAT YOU CAN SAY. Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person’s deepest emotional needs. The need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your spouse, your children, your friends, and you all need to hear those three little words “I LOVE YOU.”

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JesusMurphy offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 minute after post)

What about “don’t eat the green wobbly bit!”?

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AmandaSeliga offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
Calgary, AB, CA | 1 year, 9 months ago (3 minutes after post)

lol

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AmandaSeliga offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
Calgary, AB, CA | 1 year, 9 months ago (10 minutes after post)

okay, so, umm

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JesusMurphy offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
hit us up with more jokes jesus i’m bored

I was being quite serious.

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AmandaSeliga offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
Calgary, AB, CA | 1 year, 9 months ago (11 minutes after post)

umm, sometimes? and no thanks, not right now, not in the mood

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lillian offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 Add Friend #
AU | 1 year, 9 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Amanda that’s great - did you write it yourself? This has just put me in a great mood :) Do you mind if I copy the text and forward it to a few people who I think might appreciate the reminder? Thanks!

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AmandaSeliga offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
Calgary, AB, CA | 1 year, 9 months ago (20 minutes after post)

thanks!! no, i dont mind, do whatever u want with it!

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Starlight offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
Halifax, NS, CA | 1 year, 9 months ago (25 minutes after post)

Wonderful writing, you have some very good points in that. Thanks for sharing :)

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AmandaSeliga offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
Calgary, AB, CA | 1 year, 9 months ago (26 minutes after post)

ur welcome!

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low-key highbrow offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 Add Friend #
Fleetwood, PA, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (28 minutes after post)

very very good

I’ll keep those points with me, thanks.

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shelbylynnfarme offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
Calgary, AB, CA | 1 year, 9 months ago (5 hours, 6 minutes after post)

Amanda, you are Amazing! I really like the way you said this all. I am so glad I am your Best Friend, because you are AMAZING!

luvss

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