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More complicated then a the usual online relationship
ok, here on help.com I met a Girl (yeah thats original) I like her (but not as in gf like) she’s just one of those few people you find thats just so cool, you just want to hang in their world, and be around them.
Ok
The complication
after I met her, (my temperary account expired) so then I got a perminant one and went to a different post a couple days later and got into a deep discussion involving..stuff…now she comes onto the discussion and takes the opposite side, now we didn’t like say “I hate you” but in that post she Definatly DID NOT like me. (owch)
so now I’m faced with a choice.
The other account I was on when I first met her expired so I made this one, she asked me to contact her when I got a perminant account.
now I have this one, but because it shows the conversation (and argument) in my comments I’m afraid to contact for fear she’ll say ” I don’t want to be your friend anymore/I don’t want to hang with you or you me”
what should I do?
just options
*make a new account
*tell her the truth
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7 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)
*make a new account
I couldn’t stand hiding it from her because I know it will come out sooner or later
*tell her the truth
do you think that she’ll still want to even, I dunno, be around me?
Yeah you could make a new account, but you could also be truthful and she probably would respect that. And you know the saying “got along without you before and I can do it again”, well things will go on. Me and a friend of mine got into A HUGE arrgument and didnt talk for a while, but now we got over it and grew up.
So that is probably the worst thing that would happen. But she would still have to take into consideration that you were truthful!!!
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7 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)
justme388 wrote:
Yeah you could make a new account, but you could also be truthful and she probably would respect that. And you know the saying “got along without you before and I can do it again”, well things will go on. Me and a friend of mine got into A HUGE arrgument and didnt talk for a while, but now we got over it and grew up.
So that is probably the worst thing that would happen. But she would still have to take into consideration that you were truthful!!!
your right, my only worry is that the arguement became personal for her, so she might still think that I’m against her, which, I guess I am, but, I don’t know, its so confusing
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7 months, 1 week ago (15 minutes after post)
how about I contact her, but don’t tell her? or if I do contact should I tell her? which is better?
Tell her if you want her to know it’s you. If you don’t like her like a girlfriend why are you so worried. Me and my best friend see the opposite on a lot of things and we fight all the time. But we’re still friends. You should give it a chance that you might become friends.
Ok well you just need to let her know that you understand her point of view and that you are sorry you offended her, but that everyone has their own beliefs on things. It’s not like you can change her mind nor could she do that to you. Everyone has their own oppinions on EVERYTHING, if she doent know that then she must really be stupid.
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justme388 wrote:
Yeah you could make a new account, but you could also be truthful and she probably would respect that. And you know the saying “got along without you before and I can do it again”, well things will go on. Me and a friend of mine got into A HUGE arrgument and didnt talk for a while, but now we got over it and grew up.
So that is probably the worst thing that would happen. But she would still have to take into consideration that you were truthful!!!
your right, my only worry is that the arguement became personal for her, so she might still think that I’m against her, which, I guess I am, but, I don’t know, its so confusing
Ok well you just need to let her know that you understand her point of view and that you are sorry you offended her, but that everyone has their own beliefs on things. It’s not like you can change her mind nor could she do that to you. Everyone has their own oppinions on EVERYTHING, if she doent know that then she must really be stupid.
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7 months, 1 week ago (24 minutes after post)
ok, I will, thanks guys =), your wonderfull
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Depending on the arguement it may not be that bad. Give it a shot. She may still want to be your friend.
Doesn’t sound that bad. Be honest.
PersonalPandaParty wrote:
Doesn’t sound that bad. Be honest.
you still on? (sorry it took so long =(
I’m not, but now. I don’t know. Hello.
hello, tell me if your reading this k?
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