girl help: ima 15 year old boy. - Help.com

pelvic trusts and party boy

oh god.

dont listen to Ikari. but it is funny :D

go into a dance studio and see if they can give you some quick pointers. they helped me a little bit.

if not.. do you have any older siblings? my sister was happy when i asked her for help.

and when all else fails you could ask your parents.

haha

oh yeah congrats on getting a girl for the dance.

Watch Footloose!!
Do you know if you have any natural rythem? Mostly, just feel the music and move to it. Oh, watch Hitch too! You could take Will Smiths characters advice, or you can listen to the point of the movie and be yourself. Maybe your date can help you out. You have no idea how many guys I have taught to dance while AT a dance! So relax, an have fun!

UHHHHHHH guys…

1. he’s 15
2. i sure don’t ever want to see you guys dance

slow dance is easy, just put your hands on her hips or you can wrap your arms around her hips if you want to be closer… she’ll put her arms on your shoulders or around your neck.. depending on how close you guys are gonna dance… and then you just sway left and right… it’s really simple, you don’t really move your feet

oh didn’t catch that, do people at your school grind?

yea in high school people start grinding

but i mean grinding is more intimate and if you just met this girl, idunno if i would suggest this but i mean, it really depends on what kind of girl she is

during upbeat songs, its better if you hang out with a several other couples, and to be honest, everyone looks like a fool, you just gotta be confident my man. you just gotta be like **** who cares what i look like as long as you and your date are having fun… move with the beat, sway your arms a bit, seriously, don’t be afraid to fool around, a dance is all about having fun

grinding on the other hand (i’m assuming you know what that is, if not ask me lol) is easier i guess, you both just kind sway together with the beat, not much to that

try youtube.

well, my first advice to you right now is confidence. girls love confidence, not cockiness. you just gotta man up and do it…

i’ll see if i can find anything on youtube for ya

but when i say “just do it” i’m not nessecarily talking about the grinding, just like dancing to the upbeat music, just have some fun haha, i can’t seem to find any videos but worst comes to worst, just see what your friends/other people are doing

Here i found some tips of a website that might help you:

Realize that dancing is all about confidence. When you go out, remember you are there to have fun, and so is everyone else. No one is judging you on how you dance, and if they are then they probably aren’t the sort of people worth worrying about. If your esteem is low, your body language will reflect this, so go out there and have fun.

Watch other dancers. If you’re not sure how to dance to a song, take your cues from other dancers. You don’t want to copy them exactly (unless it’s a standardized dance), but you can get some ideas.

Lose yourself in the music. Let your body move naturally to the beats and rhythms. Dancing is about expressing yourself, but it’s not just about moving at random—it’s about expressing yourself through a particular song. Pay attention to the music and let it be your guide.

Improvise. To be perfectly honest, dancing isn’t really something that has to be learned; most people at the club just wing it. Be creative and have fun.

haha alrite man, you’ll be fine, TRUST ME and more importantly TRUST YOURSELF =P let yourself go and i’m sure you’ll be lookin back on the dance rememberin how much fun you had

ahahaha just be yourself, if she doesn’t like that, then sorry to say you two weren’t meant to be, good luck, let me know how it goes, send me a shout