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So here goes, feeling really down and drained.

Can’t get this feeling off me, she was my first love. we were in relationship for about 8 months, in that time i got her pregnant and she had an abortion. I can’t have baby right now, i think i’m a bit young for that and don’t want to get married. But i really feel sick for making her go through such pain. But supported her all that i can, we were together for 4 months after abortion. During that time when ever we watch movie or TV if there’s something related to abortion or children she used to get very depressed, i tried all that i can to help her. We started getting in to these kinds of talk and both used to cry, i really care about her. We broke up recently, now she doesn’t answer my calls or mails, i just want to know if she’s doing fine. What should i do?

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Romy22 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Al Gharrafah, 01, QA | 1 year, 9 months ago (10 minutes after post)

do you know any of her friends…maybe you could check with them..

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (12 minutes after post)

man let her go if she loves you she will come around she is deppressed it happens she killed something inside her do you know where she works.

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1 year, 9 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Why did you both break it off?

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JP | 1 year, 9 months ago (41 minutes after post)

Recently we started having this fights, actually not fights but kind of uneasiness . Both of us don’t talk much just feel like empty spaces between us. I think its better for her to find some one nice and get married, actually she is 4 years older to me. I just want to know if she’s alright, may be i’ll try to see her at work. Thanks for the replies, i just wanted to say these to someone.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (10 hours, 49 minutes after post)

happy man send her flowers she will know your still thinking about her and it doesnt have to mean that your trying to be romantic

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