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i am getting a divorce and my husband lied and said he wouldnt contest it, but now he wants to.

what can i do?

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jcd offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Get a good lawyer.

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Help me with: Umm..
Times' gone mad offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Silver Spring, MD, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (37 minutes after post)

Why is he contesting it?

Did you file no contest and then in his response did he note his reasons for contesting the divorce?

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Help me with: So, sometimes I annoy my Fiance, and sometimes he annoys me…either way, there are so many reasons I love him.
burningangelofdarkne offline Unverified User #
Marshfield, WI, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (47 minutes after post)

Men are jerks alot of times. He might be doing it just because he wants to be a jerk and is insecure about the whole thing. But frankly, the bast thinkg you could do is to get a good lawyer.

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RC offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Jacksonville, FL, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (56 minutes after post)

cuz he loves you and doesn’t want a divorce,,maybe he doesn’t agree with giving half his toys away,he feels betrayed,he wants to be with his kids,hard to help when you have to guess

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Help me with: Mr mccain,so lookin for clarification,what was the keating 5 hearing about?
RC offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Jacksonville, FL, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

maybe your right,alimony,sell the house,pay for school,that would make a man stay with a woman who wants divorce,i must have missed something,as i didn’t realize they have been married for ten years,and they have a house,and she has no job or education,but i do know being a housewife is a hard job and its value is priceless.

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Help me with: Mr mccain,so lookin for clarification,what was the keating 5 hearing about?

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