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saoooz_9
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girls are so confusing…

. she has random mood swings (all the time, not just during that “special” time.) sometimes she vents like crazy to me {which im starting to like ;-)} but sometimes shes so secritive… ??? someone tell me wats up???? plz

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X_GC_X offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Hexham, I7, GB | 1 year, 8 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Women aren’t easily explained, but either are men. Especially where hormones are concerned. Sometimes we just don’t feel like explaining everything to someone, and sometimes we’re looking for a little push to let it all come out and feel better. We’re probably harder to judge what to do when then males, admittedly, and a lot of it just requires being lucky, having instinct and being psychic. But the best you can whole-heartedly do it stick by this girl and try and be there when she’s ready to say what she means.

theCharlie offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
San Francisco, CA, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Get used to it :)
Unless you guys really have the glue that sticks you together, and you really try to be sensitive when telling her about this, and she can really listen to your constructive criticism well, and do something about it, it’s just something that may always happen.

My wife is like that. She’s been getting better, but it always still happens. Heck, it even rubs off onto me :P

Also, realize that most men can open one emotion box and close another (I feel happy now because _____, ok, now I feel sad because ___, etc.). However, women generally have several boxes open at the same time (I’m happy about this AND sad about this AND confused about this… all at the same time)… it’s kind of hard to explain, but it’s true, psychological studies have been done, and yes, women are much more emotionally complex than men.

So, be diligent, and try your best to be gentle and kind with her. She will come around, cheer up :)

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Woa offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
South San Francisco, CA, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (22 minutes after post)

lol
Maybe she’s pregnant…

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littlebits42 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 month, 4 weeks after post)

its PMS
and it also could be the fact that she want you to have more intrest in her so you will become closer

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bencritt offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 3 days ago (1 year, 7 months after post)

if you love her stick by her man. She probably thinks your just as moody as you think she is.
So stand by her, if you prod for a little while she’ll open up to you in her own time. She is with you because your her man, and she needs you to be strong enough to not put up with her ****. At the same time you need to be loving and always put up with her ****.

hope that helps some what.
Be a man and tell her whats going on

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