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please help with some coping techniques with my fiances addiction withdrawls…

.My Fiance and i just had our first child whom is now 3 months old my fiance said he was going to slowly quit smoking marijuana from the day i got pregnant but unfortunatly only got me smoking at night to fall asleep tonight i decided that since we were out that we should just quit and not spend our money on it anymore…easier for me than him since hes been smoking off and on since he was 15 and instantly i turned into the bad person and i was keeping him from happiness he said he is going to be pissed off atleast for 3 months and it was so hurtful so much just today how am i going to get through the next few months of his withdrawls and hurtful words and pushing me away? and how to help him see the future and not focus on now

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10 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

Your boyfriend needs to go to a drug treatment program. However, he has to want to stop otherwise treatment will be fruitless. You need to stop for the sake of your child. Your child deserves better than a mom and dad who are constantly high. IMHO, if your boyfriend won’t stop, you and your child would be better off without him. But YOU must stop as well.

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US | 10 months ago (1 week after post)

The thing that sucks…and I mean REALLY sucks… is that there isn’t always a future to look forward to between two people. Sometimes you just have to hold your head high, decide to do the right thing, and not care whether he follows you. I promise if you do that you’ll end up somewhere much, much better, whether or not he’s there beside you.

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