Love help: I’m falling out of love with my boyfriend. - Help.com

well there is really nothing you can do for the man that has a girlfriend but if you dont love him you shouldnt be with hiom…ya its going to break his heart but its better then leading him on thinking that you love him…. that would hurt him worse…just tell him what you feel… and if he thinks you cheated on him and you didnt then he really doesnt trust you ….you have to have trust to have a relationship… so its better off to be with someone you love and that you both trust each other and are honest then what your in now….

If you don’t love him then break up with him. If you care about him at all you will brake his heart for his own good. He will be hurt, he will even hate you. But you if you care enough about him you will endure the pain of being hated and the cause of his pain.

Hurt him - it’s the only way he can move on with his life and find somebody that actually loves him.

and dude…that other guy… (I’m totally shaking my head at the moment)

There’s a big chance that he’s done this before and probably often… these sound like rehearsed situations on his part.

the main point is though: break up with your boyfriend before you start planning something new with somebody else…at least show him that respect.

Usually, if you are feelin gout of love its because youa re. we tryto reason with ourselves and stay because… hes nice, we’ve been together for a long time, I don;twant to hurt him, Im afraid to be alone or ________fill in the blank. If you honor and respect him and your relationship, you will end htings even if it willbe paiful so that both of you will heal and be free to love again, evenbetter the next time around. Ps be weary of stangers who don;t respect commitments… they will hurt you in the end!

its really hard once this happens because youre relationship will never be the same again youll just always try to be what you were and it begins a constant struggle so say youre goodbyes when you can

Tell him straight how it is. Maybe not the part about the other guy, but definitely don’t keep him hanging in the balance. I know how it feels to be in that position and it’s not nice at all. Tell him straight, but another thing, if I may, don’t leave him wondering. Tell him WHY you don’t love him anymore, what happened to the two of you etc.. Be kind but honest, the key is always honesty. Lies will hurt him even more. But be clear that you’re finished, so he doesn’t try to “win you back”, apologies for the cliché.
Finally, if you can, tell him in person. This will make him feel a lot better, like he hasn’t just been ditched randomly. If you can’t do that, send him an email, this way you can still go into depth and tell him exactly what happened. Two things not to do: phone or text. They suck. Texts will make him feel like you can’t even be bothered even in finishing with him, and he’ll feel like ****. Phone will make him feel very alone. Both the last ones feel more like a dump than a break up, and there is a difference.
Sorry for rabbling on lol. Hope it all goes well for you, it’s really nice to see you care enough to ask this.

Tell Him How You Feel About Him.
See What He Says…??
If He’s Saying Your Cheating On Him And Your Not That Shows You, There Is No Trust In The Relationship, If You Feel Alot for this man at work then go for do what you think best and go,for it at the end of the day it your life you only live once make a good one hunni..xxxx

dont fall for the im having problem with my gf crap! its just a guys way of getting in to ur pants - ive seen it before

Thats the same way with my new boyfriend. i feel bad because i know that he really likes me. I think that the best way to handle it is to break up with him, but do it like gentley. Any as for the other guy i think you should leave him be until atleast maybe a month so your ex-boyfriend wont be all “I still love you!” on you anymore. ;) good luck. member you gotta make every minute count cause u only live once.