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my life has gone horribly wrong.

i’ve been turned down by a boy and insulted by his friends and recently my hair has turned ginger and i have started blushing and MY friends tease me about that so i dont know what to do.

please help me

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kfs offline Unverified User #
Saint Louis, MO, US | 10 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

you sound like your in middle school. Grow up before you can say anything about life and how wrong you think it is.

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lottie 4 lyfe offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Amersham, B9, GB | 10 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

excuse me but your supose to be helping me???

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Help me with: omg this is so embaressing!
emersushe offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 10 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

I know its hard to think about this now…but 5 even 2 years from now none of this will matter.

School will be over and you’ll never have to see these people again.

I used to blush all the time, had bad acne, constantly sweaty armpits but I got over it and realized it doesn’t matter what others think. Now these things aren’t problems…and the people back then don’t even matter in my life.

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ionapenguin offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Falmouth, C6, GB | 10 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

Hey, it may seem like this is the worst thing that could possibly happen to you right now, but it would be A LOT WORSE. How can you suddenly turn ginger? And even if it’s here to stay, not everyone thinks it’s unattractive - one of my flatmates has long ginger hair and it’s beautiful. I’m sure you havn’t turned bright orange over night.
No one likes being turned down and no one coped well with insults, but however stupid you feel, you’re clearly worth so much more than them if were willing to give them the time of day. Rise above it seriously, there are so so so SO many other better guys out there. Blushing is nothing to be ashamed of! I’m sure, if they’re real friends, they don’t mean to tease to make you feel bad, and if they do mean that then you need some better friends.

Number 1 rule - do not be offended by people you KNOW you are better than.

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kfs offline Unverified User #
Saint Louis, MO, US | 10 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

ok, well, if you want help with this, id say you need to let your friends have their fun. we all get made fun of sometimes, and they will still be your friends. Dont worry about being turned down by a boy, there are always more chances and more people. if your blushing, dont worry, its not bad. if his friends insulted you, either do something about it like kick their ***** or just ignore it. I think your situation is one in which in a day or week it will be past.

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lottie 4 lyfe offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Amersham, B9, GB | 10 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

thanx i have been jumping to conclusions… im sorry

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 10 months, 1 week ago (15 minutes after post)

I think “kfs” is putting it a little blunt to you .
However his point is somewhat correct in that you need to
develop a little more tough skin when it comes to your friends etc.
Kids can been very harsh sounding.They probably shouldn’t of course.
But you do have to live with it and learn to ignore them… they are jerks.

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alexbeever offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (3 months, 1 week after post)

im in exactly the same situation, exept im a guy and it is a girl that turned me down.

it sucks doesnt it. no matter, just hink that this wont matter in 2 weeks. tell ur freinds u dont like being teased, ignore the boys, trust me, they’ll grow tired of it.

desperatly needing help.

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