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4 years, 2 months ago (1 day, 18 hours after post)
hi kimtram, how you doing? any update?
Hi there, we actually spoke yesterday and ended things. It was pretty amicable. It was mostly due to the fact that we hardly saw eachother- once a week is not that much if you think about it..and I did want more time with him, and it annoyed me that he had to work so much. I can’t count how many times I spent the night and his boss would call him pre 8am with appointments. I was already dissapointed with the relationship to begin with and with the fact that he was emotionally unavailable. Also, he’s going out of town for two weeks next week, so another reason to add to the fact that we hardly see eachother. Oh well. He was a great guy, treated me well, and I know there is better for me out there, a guy better than him! I won’t ever date a guy below him like my other ex of four years who treated me like dirt. How is your situation going?
im a man and when I act that way it is usually over. sorry
hey….
im a new cumer into ur group..well u all mite be shocked to knw ma age which is just 14 nd m into a relationship wit a guy who’s 2 years older than me….
tis all started in mid of jan wen he proposed me and i said yes cause i used to find him really very cute…
he was in 10th grade and i was in 8th,,,
as time passed by till mid feb we had good relationship bt den on 20th feb he asked me he wants to live by hiself he dont want to b in any relation..
i was totally shocked as the very previous day we both met nd we had the most beautiful time of our being together till dat date.it was all good jus except one small thing which i took it as small bt den i realise dat it might have picnched him and the thing was dat he wanted to kiss my lips which i felt is just the begining so…..he tired twice and i said stop it in an irritating voice bt after dat also he was all fine,,,then the next day en he asked for the breakup i pleaded him and said tell me wats da matter…he gave me many excuses like he had boards exams and unfourtunately before 10 days to all dis his grnadfather with whom he as very much attached had expired….he dint had a father too….so he told me i cant study half da time i think abt u and half da time i think abt my grandpa…i was like i told him den hy da hell did u came up to me i loved him so much infact i still love him very much…it would look very baad me sayin dat before him i had got many proposes bt i took dem so easily bt wen i saw him i was totally mad abt him…after dat many days passed by like dis (me pleading him not to do dis and asking for the real reason)and oneday i sa him so happy with his tutions friends speacially girls..dat day i asked him ur so happy it everyone else bt wen it cums to me u jus ignre he said stop it nd suff…
den he told me the real reason.. he said he dint liked my nature, for him i acted like a child,and many more..
bt den onday he told me he wants to stay committed wit me and told me not to break his trust dis time…he said i never trusted him..but nw im it this guy bt he never calls me i mean if i call him den its okay he picks it up keep the conversation short and sumtimes he also ignres me…he is no more sweet to me..never says iloveu or calls me sweetly ias it used to be…today only the hole day since mrng ive been callin up and he was igrng was cuttin da phn he was on waitin also for so much time…i dnt knw y is he dng dis he makes me husrt so much nad makes rivers come out of ma eyes…..till now late night at 11 he is cuttin da phn plzzz tell me wats wnrg and wat shud i du..i really love him and i can die for him…pls help and reply soon waiting
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sounds like hes cheatin on you or doesnt lik you anymore
and he used the argument to get out of dinner
dont call him, ignore him back, guys always fall for women who ignore them
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I’m going in the same situation. My man and I live together, and his being stress out for many thing, he didn’t have a car, no job, no friends would call him and his start getting depress. Then we have issues because of that, but we always reasuring that we’re a couple and we can make it. A few weeks ago he start to pull away and withdrawing, now his parent came to visit for 3 weeks and they rent a house in the capital so he went and spend this time with them, I went for the weekend to meet his parents for 1st time and everything was lovely. Then tis pass week he bought a car a since then we has in spoke to me. I texting Hi! once and he answering what I’m doing? then I said I was out of town how are you? and he only answer fine. Since that he never text or call, he didn’t even call to wish me a happy valentine’s day since we was not together this weekend. His supose to come back home in 8 more days…should I call him and ask him what’s going on or should I wait until he comes back…??? his 42 and I’m 25…please let me know what to do
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my boyfriend is doing the same to me today=”"”( he told me for more than a year about how much he’s in love with me and how much he thinks of me as his wife and how much he missed me.. now 2 days ago he was trying to sruprise me to come and see me and was telling me “non of u bizz” when i asked him wer u are or what ur doing so i got hurt wen he sed that and went back home from wer i was.. n ignored his calls.. then later on i got texts from him saying how rude i was to go home and not wait for him to surprise me but i had NO idea that he was even gonna surprise me so straight after i sent him texts saying i had no idea and i got alittle frustrated too and told him i hate him bcoz he left me for nothing. then he ignored me until just today eventhough i sed i didnt mean my words such as ” i hate u”..and he still ignored me..i went to see him yesterday he completely ignored me n told me to go home and today the same thing ignoring my calls and messages and even if he does text me he tells me that he needs space which doesnt mean he will be back with me again n he cant guarantee that hell b with me again..now one thing that i have to mention here is that we saw each other two to three times a week for about an hour but because my mum is so so strict she didn’t let us see each other at nights or spend to much time together which my boyfriend always told me hes okay with it n he promised me that he had no problems with seein me this much and now today in his texts he brings up things like the fact that he cant see me whenever he wants or that hes saving us from going crazy and things that make no sense to me =”"”( i do not know what to do or what to think now..i told him ill give him space and he hasnt replied yet =”"( i got so attached to him for more than a year because of his words and how much he told me he is in love with me and it doesnt make sense to me how he can easily ignore me over the fact that i ddnt know he was going to surprise me n that i was angry.. he had done the exact same thing last year over a problem that we had and ignored me for two whole days saying nothing nomatter how many times i called him or text him and I remember last year i couldn’t let him go so i begged to b with him and he accepted n then afterwards he said all sweet things that hes so in love and that he would always fight for me blah blah and NOW hes ignoring me AGAIN for the second time just like last year but he PROMISED me not to =”"”"”"( i dont know why i deserve this or why he would easily ignore me like this if he did ever love me or care for me like he always did or said=”"”"”( please help =”"”"”"(
Same with me! I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he always says how he loves me and wants to marry me. and it’s really hard because a few months ago he went to live in florida for school and i’m in PA. So like 2 weeks ago he wasn’t feeling good and he slept like 20 hours a day so i never talked to him, and we usually talk all of the time, but now all he’s doing is sleeping, or so he says, and hanging out with his guy friends, and looking up cars, and it hurts so bad because i love him with all my heart and it feels like he completely forgot about me. I write him emails all of the time and send him letters and little gifts and leave him messages on facebook but i never get anything back ever! I don’t want to loose him so what should i do? some people tell me to give him his space and sort of ignore me but i don’t want him to think i don’t want to be with him….idk what to do anymore :(
dont bother hes not worth your time and effort to be honest his just going to muck you about if he hasnt got back to that means he hasnt even thought about it at all and if he really liked you he would have let you kno tbh itsounds like he dont care to much id drop him while you cn i dont know it =s up to you really isnt it
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OMG! Maybe tell him you’ll give him a treat(AKA like pole dancing or something like that but not for reals it’s just a bait) for an apoligy. Guys like your boyfriend will fall for the bait.When he comes to your house or you go to his, tell him that you are sorry for nagging him and that you could give him the special treat at the hotel that he was at over his stay there when he was gone. If he tells you that why not there and now, then he is lieing to you. If you go and it looks exactly like his room then it’s no a lie.If he ignores you then he’s takin you for granit.
Sincerely, a 12 year old girl
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forget them all they are all a bunch of tossers!
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actually we just met 3 months ago.. my boy fri had a lover but he loved me a lot i told him not to love me but he changed my mind and i fell in love with him… we loved eachother… he was affectionate and he told me he loves me a lot and he cant live without me..but today he is telling tht he wants to live with ttht girl whom he loved first… he loves me more than her…i dunno wat to do feel lik killing myself.. please anyone help me i dunno wat to do… i love him so much and i want him.. please help me…and he is ignoring me now.. i cant take it…
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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 2 months now and everything’s been going great. He’s really sweet, and treats me well. We just got back from a week in New York with friends and everything was fine, he was still himself. We’ve been back for about a week now and three days ago we went for a picnic, I bought one of my friends who he’s never met before and he introduced himself, stayed with us for a bit then went off with his mates. This is pretty normal behaviour for him, but the next day (my friend had stayed the night at mine) he was out playing a round of golf with his dad so he didn’t text much until the evening. When he finally did get in touch, he seemed off, leaving out kisses or being snappy. I asked him about it and he brushed it off, putting more kisses on in apology. Saturday (the day after) he was out scoring a game of football and so sent me a message in the morning saying he wouldn’t text all day, he didn’t. Today has been even worse, I left him a message this morning telling him Happy Easter and that I loved him, and he didn’t reply for the whole day. I just managed to catch him on Facebook chat and said hey, but he logged out, so I sent him a message telling him I’m getting sick of this, him ignoring me. He replied a couple of minutes later telling me we’ll talk next time we see each other which isn’t for another 2 days. What does this mean? Are we over, or am I just being paranoid? Please help if you can.
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He is going to break up with you….beat him 2 the punch!
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