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i have raised (barely) 3 kids to adults on my own…

things weren’t always perfect…but kept a roof and food and clothes on them…i see them making mistakes…horrible mistakes…but won’t listen to good advice…am verbally abused and disrespected…the 21 and 22 yr. old still live at home with me as they have literally have no where else to go…i dont want to hear kick them out because unless you have been in this situation that is totally rediculous…one just came home from tour in iraq and other would end up staying with druggies while trying to change…help me get thru this…at least tonite…so down on myself…thanks

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Sir Urgdu offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Evanston, IL, US | 10 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

Help them find jobs?

The soldier should have no problem getting a job, an army tour looks AMAZING on a resume

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sonee_daz offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

yeah, but the VA won’t let them work right now while being evaluated…the other does have a job (new) and unable to sustain financially

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