Money help: i don’t know what i feel, im sad i don’t know how to snap out of it. - Help.com

i don’t know what i feel, im sad i don’t know how to snap out of it.

Im 19 i have a 18month old son the father is in a different country an is there to further his sporting carrier an set up for us aswell. it’s been awhile an we aint getting any where i live at home with my mother an two brothers 9 an 8. im the oldest of 5. my twin sister lives with her boyfriend an my 17yr old brothoer lives with his girlfriend an here but that is another story altogether. im still getting told what to do i feel as though im not my own person. there is no father figure in the house an when my mother gets angry im the one she yells at. i don’t retaliate i just agree an i go into my room. i can’t be bothered to argue. My boyfriend tells me i should save money so when i do move over we have some, thats alright. but the way he says it, it’s like i aint making an effort to get over there. no to mention he doesn’t do things for himself cause he’s a mama’s boy, he lives over there with his family an his mother does everything for him his dad finds him a job an, the parents aren’t push overs or anything like that they just love there boy. He is the only boy in the family the eldest of 4 aswell. The girls don’t get much attention from them at all, only the youngest girl gets most out the girls. I just don’t know what im thinking. Am i just tired confused, wrong about point of views, should i just listen instead of being heard?

This open post was written 2 years, 3 months ago | V/U/S: 335, 3, 1 | Edit Post | Leave a reply | Report Post

Money, live at home, twin sister, mamas boy, sad, son, father, Carrier (How Tags Affect Reciprocity)

A logged in and verified Help.com member has the ability to setup a Friends List and invite others to help with posts.