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10 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)
Give her your e-mail and be sure to get her phone number. You can message her and talk to her. It won’t be all that bad. At least you know where she is going and where she will be. When my sister ran away, we had no clue where she was. Don’t worry. Maybe you can spend a whole day together before she leaves.
she doesn’t want to spend time with anyone but her boyfriend and his family even though she’s moving there with them… and you don’t understand…. shes the one who has always been there for me[not saying that my friends havent] but like when my dad died and when my step dad is treating me like **** she was always there to stand up for me or tell me i could do something when i didn’t think that i could and now i am going to lose her and i don’t know what to do,
talk to her about it before it’s to late.
I know it’ll be hard to describe your feelings, but tell her to stop what she’s doing and tell her what you told us. =]
right now i can’t talk or even look at her for that matter without crying… i started crying in the middle of class just thinking about it….
I know, but that isn’t a bad thing.
Stop her and tell her to come with you.
Go into a room, and even if it takes you a while to gain composure, talk to her.
You won’t stop being best friends, or sisters. =]
if she leaves shes not coming back because she hates my family and thats just how she is…
talk to her about that.
She loves YOU though.
She will come back.
Talk to her! =]
Tell how you feel, I’m sure you’ll feel better by her reply…=]
Lexi, if your sister is your best friend, she doesn’t hate you. She’s probably trying to get away from your step-dad b/c if he’s treating you badly, he’s probably treating her worse. If your step-dad is treating you *really* badly, you should tell someone who can help you.
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bluetorren wrote:
Lexi, if your sister is your best friend, she doesn’t hate you. She’s probably trying to get away from your step-dad b/c if he’s treating you badly, he’s probably treating her worse. If your step-dad is treating you *really* badly, you should tell someone who can help you.
he doesn’t treat her bad at all…. and i know she doesn’t hate me and also that i have to talk to her but lately i never see her like i said she spennds all her time with her boyfriend and his family even though its them who she is leacing with… and i always try to get her to do things with me but she always blows me off for her bf….
text her or call and leave a message saying that you need to talk to her asap and to swing by. Say it’s really important. =]
shes at work and im babysitting right now
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17 and she’s 19 and trust me i give her space i ask to hang out with her but i am always busy as is she
talking to her would be best when you can.
You love her and don’t want to lose her.
It’s okay, she will understand..as soon as you can just talk to her…even if you have got to bawl like a baby..hehe ;]
Im really sorry. i Live in Idaho- where is she going?
i don’t know… she told me as she was dropping me off at school… and when i saw her after school i had to leave and i couldn’t talk to her…. how far away is idaho from california???
lexi~j~09 wrote:
i don’t know… she told me as she was dropping me off at school… and when i saw her after school i had to leave and i couldn’t talk to her…. how far away is idaho from california???
its not too far. im not sure where you are in california, but just to get to the idaho border from the california border is like maybe 10 hours driving. Only 2 states away. they are both in the west. her, think of it like this- Idaho borders Oregon (which borders California to the North)
im really sorry
its not your fault… i don’t think that i could go visit her anyways because she won’t let me around her bf’s family now so i doubt that she will let me come stay with her when she goes
She most likly cares for you more that you think, she might be having trouble with her life and wants to straighten it out. You need to talk to her about it and tell her how it makes you feel. Tell her you two need a couple days to just you two so you guys can hangout and chill before she leaves.
i talked to her and she blew me off like it was nothing. i don’t know what to do about this anymore… maybe i should just forget about everything….
Don’t forget about everything. I bet you still have friends who care about you. Don’t do anything dramatic please, like kill yourself over this. That won’t be good.
im not going to kill myself over this but i don’t think you understand. im not just losing a friend im losing my sister possibly forever because i know her and i highly doubt that she will come back.
But it’s her choice. You need to let her know how you feel. Then what happens happends. I know what you mean. My sister is more than just my sister she is my best friend. I want you to know that her choice is for her own good. It might be a grat opprtunity for her to get a better understanding of what she wants to do with her life. I’m sure she is losing just as much as you are in her choice. She might not relize what she has with you until she loses you. I hope everything works out for the best.
i talked to her and she doesn’t seem to care so im just going to let her do what she wants to do and if that means forgetting about me then so be it…as long as shes happy right?
You need to be happy too. When she is gone hang out with people who love you such as friends or a boyfriend. Do you have a boyfriend? Your friends should help you. Do they know whats going on with your sister?
no i don’t have a boyfriend and only two of my friends know but thats because they were here when she told me,they aren’t telling people about them moving and are waiting until a right before they go. and she told me on friday that they are leaving in a month.
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