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Well about a month ago me and my boyfriend started going out.

But we don’t even go to the same school and i barely ever get to see him and i always call him and all but i still don’t think were spending enough time together. So the next time i see him i want him to do something special for me like give me a kiss. But i don’t know how i should tell him i want one. Any suggestions?

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lanjack3 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (0 minutes after post)

how old are you

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zclarabel offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

why

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lanjack3 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

well im tring to help you and it will help to how mature you are

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zclarabel offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

12

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Cell offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 35 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 10 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

I think you could take it slow. Maybe you don’t need to rush things?

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lanjack3 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

ok so why do you feel like your ready to kiss

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zclarabel offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

we already talked bout it but it never happeneed

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lanjack3 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

ok so i imagine he is not ready for that yet. do you know someone that kisses

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zclarabel offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

what u meen someone that kisses?

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zclarabel offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

what u mean?

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lanjack3 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

a friend see if you know someone tell him about it see what he thinks. it he thinks it gross hes not ready but you dont have to kiss to have a relationship

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zclarabel offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

im plaaning on asking him to kiss me today but how should i ask?

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Cell offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 35 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 10 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

Did you ask him once yet?

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Palma, 07, ES | 10 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

I think it’s not a question of asking… it will happen in due time, believe me; and it will be much more cute if it happens that way.

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zclarabel offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

yes he siad he was cool with it but thats all he siad

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lanjack3 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

thats something you dont ask go slow try to kiss him see what he say i bet he wont say anything. but if you fell that you can talk to him like that just say im ready to advance are realtionship. say im ready to give you a kiss :o

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zclarabel offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

is that what u would do?

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lanjack3 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

not would mate

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Palma, 07, ES | 10 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

lol I got my first kiss when I was 15… still proud of it.

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lanjack3 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (16 minutes after post)

i hate to say it but i was a pimp lol

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zclarabel offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (16 minutes after post)

someone told me 2 just walk up 2 him look him in the eye and hell get the hint that i want a kissshould i take that advice nd use it

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Palma, 07, ES | 10 months, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

hehe, yeah, that’s true… looking into his eyes does work, but when he’s old enough lol. I mean, don’t get me wrong, but I wouldn’t take that kind of subtle hints until much later… (we boys are so… :))

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Palma, 07, ES | 10 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

just take it easy

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lanjack3 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

at 12 i dont think so they dont know about the under carraige lol

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zclarabel offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

but 1st off i dont know how to kiss and secoond off if i did do dat do u think hell know i want him 2 kiss me?

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lanjack3 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

ok close your eyes and hope you dont hit the nose

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Palma, 07, ES | 10 months, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

lol yeah… no under carriage… videogames were enough
Yeah, just try not to hit his nose :)

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zclarabel offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

thatsgood advice

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Cell offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 35 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 10 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

I didn’t kiss a guy for real until I was 17 and I’m glad. It doesn’t hurt to wait, either.

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Palma, 07, ES | 10 months, 1 week ago (23 minutes after post)

yeah hehe
anyway, just think about it: there isn’t really a perfect way to kiss, so you’ll do it right

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zclarabel offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (23 minutes after post)

how did u get your lover to kiss u?

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Cell offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 35 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 10 months, 1 week ago (24 minutes after post)

who?

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zclarabel offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (24 minutes after post)

anyone

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Cell offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 35 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 10 months, 1 week ago (25 minutes after post)

We talked about it first. It was the first kiss for both of us. My boyfriend loved talking and we discussed all about it first. It was soooo funny! He was a really funny guy.

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zclarabel offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

what u meen it was funny

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Palma, 07, ES | 10 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

Hmmm in my case… it was funny.
She was German (I’m Spanish, btw). And we had arranged to meet at a pub, the two of us alone. Once there we went on talking for a little. Then… (lol now… this is just soooooo freak)… somehow, she had taken out a notebook to draw some sketches about our conversation. And, somehow, we started a “written dialogue”. This kept on for about an hour, till we start talking about our personal lives and all that… I joked about the idea of playing with her toes… and the rest… was good ^_^

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Palma, 07, ES | 10 months, 1 week ago (27 minutes after post)

lol yeah, that’s the key point, honey: it’s all about funny stuff

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Cell offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 35 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 10 months, 1 week ago (28 minutes after post)

He was a real character. Always clowning around. We talked about the logistic. Eyes open or closed, tilting our heads opposite directions etc. etc. It was so awkward and funny. We were both laughing about it.

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zclarabel offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (28 minutes after post)

cell is ur girlfriend

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Cell offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 35 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 10 months, 1 week ago (28 minutes after post)

What?

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Palma, 07, ES | 10 months, 1 week ago (29 minutes after post)

(I was just telling this girl that it’s all about something strange, unexperienced)

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Cell offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 35 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 10 months, 1 week ago (30 minutes after post)

zclarabel wrote:
cell is ur girlfriend

What?

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zclarabel offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (30 minutes after post)

sry 4 gettig in ur buisness ill stop

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Cell offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 35 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 10 months, 1 week ago (31 minutes after post)

zclarabel wrote:
sry 4 gettig in ur buisness ill stop

I don’t get it.

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zclarabel offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (31 minutes after post)

never mind

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Palma, 07, ES | 10 months, 1 week ago (33 minutes after post)

you’ll do it right, may it be now, in two years time or five… I have never heard a guy complaining about a girl kissing him.

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An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (34 minutes after post)