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Find responsible, kind people to put your trust in?

After talkin with my brother, I’ve understand what hes saying now. We should never put out so much trust to people. But that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t trust at all. We should trust people but only to the extent where if they decide to screw you over. You can recover from it, so in a way its like personal insurance. You can’t trust a person completely because people are selfish and in the end no one cares about anything except themselves.

Try not to be so serious about everything, only time to be serious is when someone cannot understand your message unless you are serious because they are serious. Makes sense?

When you are not serious, you have a clear mind, I mean think about it. If all those times you weren’t so angry or sad, you could have found a solution much easier and much better than the one you did at the time. However, speaking to someone who is serious while you aren’t will make them look at you like you don’t care about them.

i’ve been through a tough situation where i completely lost trust in EVERYONE. i was miserable, and stopped trusting in people. couple of years down the road, i realized not taking the risk to trust people because of my fears was even more miserable than having my heartbroken. so now, i just give people full benefit of the doubt. i just don’t “expect” things out of people because people are selfish. i think the most rewarding thing in life is to have give without expecting anything in return. it’s a paradox…..

oops “i think the most rewarding thing in life is to give..” not have give! ;)

when me and my friends get in fight some times i worry about what they are going to say about me
they know ALL of my secrets
so it takes a lot to regain trust when u fight with some one alot

eminemlovinchik wrote:
when me and my friends get in fight some times i worry about what they are going to say about me
they know ALL of my secrets
so it takes a lot to regain trust when u fight with some one alot

Please read my post. Don’t tell anyone all your secrets, cause it’s no longer a secret.