Love help: I’ve isolated all my friends.

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I’ve isolated all my friends.

I got pretty sick for a while and for 6 months didn’t return phone calls or texts, didn’t see anyone, didn’t even return myspace of facebook messages. I guess I was a bit down in the dumps and was so sick I didn’t have the strength.

But now, my illness has subsided for a bit. I’m feeling much better and I miss everyone. I want to hang out with someone, but they’ve all given up on me and no one calls or tries to get in touch anymore. I get the feeling they’re even a bit mad at me. I love them though and I feel terrible. I want to hang out and have a good time before I get so sick again, I can’t

But I’m afraid of calling and being rejected.
What should I do?

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Just Lyza 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Tell them that you really didn’t feel like it before because you weren’t feeling well and things were going badly. Tell them that you’re sorry and really miss them.

If they really like you, they’ll understand..and if you make a different choice, you might regret not trying..=]

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Ciwa 1 #
Athleague, 24, IE | 1 year, 8 months ago (4 minutes after post)

if they were real friends in the first place, they will totaly understand and just be glad that you are able to come out again, i know its gunna be hard but if they reject you at least you know where you stand. You will find at least some of your frends happy to go out with you but i am really nearly 100% sure they will all just be happy to hear from you again!!! good luck, you wont know untill you give it a try

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victoriae71 #
Fort Wayne, IN, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (15 minutes after post)

It’s your move. Suck it up and explain to your friends why you weren’t able to hang out. If they are true friends they will understand.

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Hi_Sai 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (2 hours, 5 minutes after post)

Force yourself back in the group. Though they are blackballing you they probably want you back. Hang out with your closest group member a weasel your way back in.

The first step is to make a call.

Remember the worst that could happen is that they’ll reject you. S’not the end of the world.

Hope for the best.

Good luck

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