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the worst thing i could do is give up rite?

mine and my families life isn’t going so well at the moment, i think a few of my friends are catching on, but i don’t want them to worry, or try to help fix my problems, i love my friends heaps, but i don’t really like people knowing that much about me, (yeh i no, i’m a bit freakish, i’ve been told)
well my granddad on my dads side, has a cancer growth, my grandad on my mams side has had a stroke, my nieghbour who i like to think i was friends with, has just died, and my ex boyfriends just commited suicide
my family has plans for something i cannot say, buh my ‘biological’ dad is beeing a complete a******* and is refusing, so now we have a court appeal to attend, which i doubt he will attend, because he’s on the run from just about everybody, thats costing us a fortune, and these ‘plans’ are like gonna cost like 6-7grand, which we just don’t have, i feel like my family is just being torn apart by all of this. i no i can’t give up, its just i dno what to do, i feel so helpless and a failure in everything i do, it just seems to go all horribly wrong. sorry if i’m boring you, i just feel like s*** all the time, and i feel like its not getting anybetter, its just one hurdle over another. thanx for reading, i appreicate it
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cattail offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Newark, NJ, US | 7 months ago (11 minutes after post)

So sorry to hear of all the troubles you are going through. Other people don’t need to know your personal business, nothing wrong with that. If they suspect something, you can just say it’s a tough time right now, or yes, there are some personal problems, but it’ll be OK… but leave it at that. All I can suggest is hopefully to give and receive a lot of moral support within your family as you all get through this tough time. Sometimes we all feel pretty helpless as far as things that happen that are beyond our control… but it will pass… you will get through all this and on to better times again. It doesn’t make you a failure, and ultimately tough times are what make people even stronger. Hang in there. This too shall pass!

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*lilies offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 794 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months ago (2 hours, 5 minutes after post)

Hi there, you sure have a lot of things to in mind, much more that it’s about families. No, your friends do not need to know about the details. I do that too. I mean, there is no need to explain all about it except when you meet a trusted friend and you feel like talking and she or he feels like listening. :)

It is now a matter of hoping things would get brighter. As much as possible concentrate on things you can do for now. Some things are decided by big people in the family. Of course you are part of every little thing that goes around your circle but more time for your studies and such. Take care. keep us informed.

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yuenling.chon offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (4 months, 3 weeks after post)

hey,how’s everything going on for you?I just happened pass by your site,and i may not have gone through what you’ve been through.But,if you do want somebody to talk to,I’m most willing to listen.

I hope that,you would stay strong,i know what some would say,like,it’s easier said than to do it.But you’ve got to try to stay strong.Be positive.

Much love from Yueny :)

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