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you could try keeping as busy as you can, to take your mind off it.

or you could (if possible) try stay at a friends place for a while, relax and have fun with a good friend.

you could look through a few other peoples problems on this site and try and help them. that’s a good way of forgetting your own problems.

hope this helped.
and hope you feel better soon.

Not sure I think at least 6mths

It was very complicated, I guess I split up with him.

He was my flatmate and I wasn’t completely sure about the relationship. He also had alot of female friends which i wasn’t comfortable with. Plus he was a bit too friendly with one of my friends..

Thanks for your insightful and understanding reply. Not sure who was right or wrong anymore. Unfortunately we live miles apart now as the other flatmate we lived with kicked me out. He suggested we get a place together but I felt it was all too soon and some of his behaviour suggested he may not be as committed to me as i would hope from someone i would live with. So i moved back home to my parents. All i know now is that i’m sad and he’s moved on. Of course i have learned a lot from this but feel sad about it as we were very close at one point. I feel alone and find it hard to move on. Perhaps i have been stupid but in the end i have lost out.