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This is a letter I wanna send to my friend:

“The only reason I joined the club that we r in is because I was trying to find my niche, not just another thing to hang out with you in. I mean I love spending time with you but I can’t just continue doing something I’m not entirely interested. And that time you said, ‘I let you quit Newspaper club, and now I’m not letting you quit Karate club. What do you mean by let, I think I’m capable of picking what I want to do and what I don’t. And now what do we do now. I’ve find my niche and you’re so busy with other stuff you don’t even know what it is. I mean I’m at fault too, I don’t hang around you as much but would you stay in a place where you were left unnoticed all the time? You’re my best friend and I’m not trying to like say you’re the reason why we’re disagreeing, I just want you to stop saying stuff like ‘Oh, well you’re always hanging out with your boyfriend…’ or ‘If you spent less time with your boyfriend and more time with me…’ How do you think it makes me feel to have to hear you say that I shouldn’t be around someone I love, how would you feel if someone told me not to hang around you and hang aroung them more. I don’t know how I could possibly tell you how I feel if I can’t get in one word. I’m frustrated because this whole year I had to walk on eggshells. I need you to support me, not break me down.

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imm offline Unverified User #
Houston, TX, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (3 minutes after post)

sounds good.
you might want to add a, “please don’t me mad at me.”
or something like that beause you are being just forceful enought to get the point across but it still might hurt her feelings…

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lkjs offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Northbrook, IL, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (4 minutes after post)

You should talk to her about this… Tell her that you want to do other clubs and still want to be friends. Just keep a relation with her and hang out and do what YOU want to do. Your friend shouldn’t be the one to force you to do what you do. If she does then, she isn’t a great of a friend.

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mars199 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Schaumburg, IL, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (27 minutes after post)

you have the right to do what you want and still be friends even if you don’t do the same stuff.

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