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im about to give birth in less than 2 weeks and i getting really worried.

what really happens in there? what hurts most the labour before the pushing or the actual pushing? and like what happens with your bum when you pushing will i like poo myself. cuz i got hemmoriods did anyone else get that?… through this pregnacy and i scared like my my bum is gonna fall apart to? and i worried about it tearing me really bad isit so bad like an actual big slit or what? and will i ever be the same down there again. truthful answers please.. im terrified

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mixedberrycerealbar offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Chicago, IL, US | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 50 minutes after post)

Well, I wouldn’t be afraid of birth. After going through it twice, birth isn’t scary. Doctors and nurses fu*king with you scares me.

If you are going to a hospital (and if I had it to do over I would have stayed home by myself rather than go in, but too late now), then don’t go until the absolute last minute. Don’t go in with contractions 5-10 minutes apart, if you can walk up and down the halls then you don’t need to be there yet.

Go early, and they will get tired of you when its time for their shifts to change, and you may end up with a c-section. That in turn can lead to all kinds of problems (a huge tumor in my case). Great for them - money on top of money! Sux for you if they get their claws into you.

It sounds like you’re afraid of the wrong thing.

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jackson_y_k_ offline Unverified User #
GB | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (14 hours, 6 minutes after post)

im going into a hospital. but im so worried of the pain. how long does it take to actually get the baby out. do i go to the hospital wen i really cant even move.

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niamh-thoma offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

i think im going into labour help me

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