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Limo crisis…

Here’s the scoop: My senior prom is coming up in about a month. About two weeks ago, my best friend, Amanda, invited me into her limo and I said yes. I gave her 25 dollars as a deposit for the limo, and all was well. As time went on, I found out that the people she invited into her limo weren’t really my friends, and even my ex-boyfriend was going to be in it! This is where I have the problem: I was asked out by my friend Craig to go with him to prom, and I said he can come into the limo with us and said yes. Amanda is dead set against him coming, even though all of her friends are going in the limo. My other friend, Alyssa, has invited me and Craig into her limo, and that sounds really fun. But do I tell Amanda I don’t want to be in her limo anymore? And how would I tell her? (Keep in mind: Amanda’s life right now is prom. She is going to be deeply upset if I tell her I don’t want to go into her limo. On the other hand, I feel I might have a horrible time in her limo and I’m afraid Craig will too….what should I do?

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jcd offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Tell her that since she won’t let your date in the limo, you found another ride. She’s not much of a friend for acting that way, much less a best friend.

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Nyx (ninja) offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 46 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

Tell her that you feel that in order to keep the peace (you NOT being in the same limo as your ex and you wanting to be in the same limo as your date) you’re going to have to go in the other limo. If she gets upset, just tell her that you are really going to enjoy seeing her at the dance and perhaps hanging out with her after, but that you’d rather not cause drama on a night that is so special to her.

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Shie offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 236 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (14 hours, 54 minutes after post)

jcd wrote:
Tell her that since she won’t let your date in the limo, you found another ride. She’s not much of a friend for acting that way, much less a best friend.

i totally agree… you have a date.. and if she can not accompany the both of you with the limo.. then you need to find alternative ways of getting there.. WITH YOUR DATE..

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TheBinsk offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (18 hours, 15 minutes after post)

True…it’s weird that I find it so hard to tell her this. She’s wanted me in her limo since we were in middle school…but you guys are right. If she doesn’t want my date in the limo, how can I go without him? And if she does let us both in the limo, then I still don’t know whether to go into it with her…

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Shie offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 236 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (18 hours, 16 minutes after post)

talk to your date.. this is his decision as well… as this is your prom too.. not just your friends.. dont let her ruin it for you..

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