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JesusMurphy invited 64 users to read this post 1 year, 8 months ago.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (3 minutes after post)

It is here and in real life that we have to be careful with what we say. People coming from different environment put into one site could be rewarding. We all learn from it. :)

I hope you get what you are looking for. And we will see you next time. You too, take care. J.M.

~lilies

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Maximina offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (4 minutes after post)

I am so sorry to hear that! I have always enjoyed your replies! What happened?

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=Adam= offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Riverton, NJ, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Good luck out there.
Take care of yourself.

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ÑÌnJÅ_ offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (7 minutes after post)

:(Will miss you

Wish you good luck and hope you come back soon.:)tc

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Setto? offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (19 minutes after post)

good luck.
see you when you’re back.

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Tictactomm offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Edmonton, AB, CA | 1 year, 8 months ago (31 minutes after post)

Take care Calgary. You are a value-add.

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InfoPRO offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (40 minutes after post)

Take Care jMurphy…..
[you’ll be back to defend the innocent! :)]

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downtowndaisy offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (43 minutes after post)

Sorry to hear that you feel like you can’t be yourself on here… that’s unfortunate. Please come back soon! :)

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AKITHMA offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (57 minutes after post)

I guess you know what is right for you at this time in your life,im sorry if people are getting you down here,wish i could just blink them away for you,i hate when people make others uncomfortable and feeling a need to escape here of all places which should be a place of refuge but its something that happens in the real world too unfortunatlely,i hope you can sheild these attacks from these weak minds and come back in your full spirit once you heal yourself whole for truly you possess a gentle loving beautiful passion burning inside a wonderful heart and mind who has given of their best to anyone who should ask of it,something that we will all miss,even the ones that may have hurt you no doubt,take care much love and return soon we shall be waiting patiently,feel free to shout me whenever in the meantime if you need a friend to lean on or you just want to talk about anything

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Tictactomm offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Edmonton, AB, CA | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

I am somewhat scarred by your avatar of that teddy bear mounting that hamster though… ;)

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InfoPRO edited this post 1 year, 8 months ago. Read the previous text »

I guess I’m off for awhile.
It’s no one’s fault or anything, it’s just I’m so…unbalanced right now that I’m really in no place to give good advice.
I kind of used to use this site as an escapism, but I’ve realiezed it, and a couple of the people on it, can be uglier than in the real world. (sorry if that caused anyone offense). I’m so worried I’m going to say something that’ll get me attacked. I think I’m too opinionated and hot-headed, and too easily disgusted by people. It’s no good when something you use as therapy is causing you distress.
So I’m going to see how I can fare on my own, maybe I won’t come back (but I probably will).
Goddamnit, I miss mom.
Good luck everybody :] Take care of yourselves.

logout offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (4 hours, 23 minutes after post)

Its the same reason i took a break a while back. So i think it will do you good.

I hope you do come back though. I will miss seeing your quirky comments around :)

Lots of Love :) xx

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NothingMore offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Biggs, CA, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (6 hours, 47 minutes after post)

Sorry to hear that your going. I hope you come back because I like your personality. I wish you the best of luck.

Peace.

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cattail offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Newark, NJ, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (7 hours, 12 minutes after post)

So sorry, it sounds like you’ve been targeted by some trolls ?? It’s a shame the internet always has to be ruined by people like that, who are so miserable they have to spend time trying to hurt people or ruin things for others. Sometimes “humans” are just the worst… and it’s easy to get disgusted with people when they do crap like that. By all means, take a break for awhile when it gets too much… but I do hope you come back, and hopefully the “problems” will have disappeared here!!

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2greeneyes offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Midvale, UT, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (8 hours, 59 minutes after post)

I have been staying off myself and choosing other things to do instead. Although I feel fine with others here. I feel and read alot of hostility. It does stress you out when it use to be rewarding.
Isn’t anybody happy, doesn’t anybody have something good to share? Does someone have a problem and is actually coping? If you let it drain you, it is no good. Taker a break JM, I don’t blame you and have heard others say the same.
I agree with AmandaLynn tho, The bad guys aren’t worth the loss of people trying to help. Be a duck and let the water roll off you.
See you back when you feel rejuvenated.

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (10 hours, 54 minutes after post)

so sorry to see you leave.. and yes.. i agree.. some people can be so rude and offensive when someone just wants help… sad really.. i hope you find yourself and realize that you are a great help on this site.. great big hugs…. shie.

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kemmy offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (11 hours, 13 minutes after post)

Sorry to see you go. I liked all your comments and in-put too. Well good luck and I hope you come back.

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cattail offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Newark, NJ, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (12 hours, 21 minutes after post)

Well, I guess the people who are coping with things aren’t going to come here seeking help, so that’s why it’s just problems…. right?

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*!MaryChan!* offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Denver, CO, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (16 hours, 8 minutes after post)

aww… i know exactly what you mean.. Don’t be gone for too long.

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Emilie T offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

Oh JM…sorry you are going :-( well I hope you find what you are looking for…

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Anthel offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 week after post)

Everything you have ever told me means a lot and always helped because you were simply blunt and you knew what you wnated to say. I will miss you adn good luck.

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JesusMurphy edited this post 1 year, 8 months ago. Read the previous text »

I guess I’m off for awhile.
It’s no one’s fault or anything, it’s just I’m so…unbalanced right now that I’m really in no place to give good advice.
I kind of used to use this site as an escapism, but I’ve realiezed it, and a couple of the people on it, can be uglier than in the real world. (sorry if that caused anyone offense). I’m so worried I’m going to say something that’ll get me attacked. I think I’m too opinionated and hot-headed, and too easily disgusted by people. It’s no good when something you use as therapy is causing you distress.
So I’m going to see how I can fare on my own, maybe I won’t come back (but I probably will).
Dogdamnit, I miss mom.
Good luck everybody :] Take care of yourselves.

Maximina offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

I am glad you changed your mind! :D

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