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What is love?

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Many of you have probally seen this, but for those of you who havent…….

This was sent to me via email by my niece. I thought it was interesting so, I post it for others to see. I have heard this before outside of an email in a seminar within the military. Dunno if it is accurate, but I like it.

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What does Love mean?

A group of professional people posed this question to a group of

4 to 8 year-olds, “What does love mean?”

The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have

imagined. See what you think :

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“When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and

paint her toenails anymore.

So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands

got arthritis too. That’s love.”

Rebecca- age 8

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“When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.

You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.”

Billy - age 4 (I love this one)

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“Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving

cologne and they go out and smell each other.”

Karl - age 5

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“Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your

French fries without making them give you any of theirs.”

Chrissy - age 6

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“Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.”

Terri - age 4

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“Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes

a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.”

Danny - age 7

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“Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired

of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more.

My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss”

Emily - age 8

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“Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop

opening presents and listen.”

Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)

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“If you want to learn to love better, you should start with

a friend who you hate,”

Nikka - age 6

(we need a few million more Nikka’s on this planet)

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“Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears

it everyday.”

Noelle - age 7

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“Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are

still friends even after they know each other so well.”

Tommy - age 6

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“Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.”

Elaine-age 5

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“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says

he is handsomer than Robert Redford.”

Chris - age 7

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“Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left

him alone all day.”

Mary Ann - age 4

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“I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her

old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.”

Lauren - age 4

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“When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little

stars come out of you.” (what an image)

Karen - age 7

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“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn’t

think it’s gross.”

Mark - age 6

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“You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But

if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.”

Jessica - age 8

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And the final one — Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked

about a contest he was asked to judge.

The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.

The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.

Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman’s yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.

When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said,

“Nothing, I just helped him cry”

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Maximina offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Thank you! Thank you so much for sharing this with us!

My favorites:

“Nothing, I just helped him cry”

“Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left
him alone all day.”
Mary Ann - age 4

“If you want to learn to love better, you should start with
a friend who you hate,”
Nikka - age 6

“When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.
You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.”
Billy - age 4 (I love this one)

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AlmostLuver offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Santa Ana, CA, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Oh my goodness, this was so amazing!! I loved all of them. Thank you so much for posting this!!

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (16 minutes after post)

“Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left

him alone all day.”

I like this one so much! awwww!

i have seen this a number of times, but it always feels like
the first time.Thank you!

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unsoshabl offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Phoenix, AZ, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (18 minutes after post)

It is my pleasure. Thank you for taking the time to read, and comment.

give me a warm and fuzzy.

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downtowndaisy offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Oh wow, how sweet! Thanks for sharing.

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Bristol, B7, GB | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

that was really nice thanks

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AKITHMA offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (5 hours, 37 minutes after post)

innocence is a beautiful thing to behold,stars wow what an angel

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (5 hours, 43 minutes after post)

i came to this site at the lowest ive ever been,
and this made me feel something again. thankyou

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AmandaSeliga offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Calgary, AB, CA | 1 year, 8 months ago (7 hours, 13 minutes after post)

wow, that is beutiful!

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Goodfella offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (8 hours, 22 minutes after post)

Thank You……First thing I read here today and it put tears in my eyes ……………..Thanks……I needed that.

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (11 hours, 20 minutes after post)

this one was my favorite as i was reading them…

“Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop

opening presents and listen.”

Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)

however when i got to the last one…
The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.

Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman’s yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.

When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said,

“Nothing, I just helped him cry it is so beautiful it gave me goosebumps… how adorable…

thank you for sharing… ~smile~

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Fizz offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (11 hours, 33 minutes after post)

I can’t even pick a favorite, kids are just so amazing, I’ve often thought as adults we over complicate the simply things, but kids they see things so clearly. We could learn a lot from them if we only listened and took them seriously.

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stephanie.torres3 offline Unverified User #
Kennewick, WA, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (14 hours, 22 minutes after post)

love is were you love someone who isnt perfict, were every were you go you see thatr one person and you cant live with out them you wanna be with him/her every sec.
“if you love someone let them go, and if it comes back to you then it was meant to be & if it wasnt then it never was”.

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Gvle, 03, SE | 1 year, 8 months ago (22 hours, 58 minutes after post)

I think these are great! I saw some of them before, but not all.
One of them is a little different, though. The sister who puts herself in having to buy new clothes because of giving all her old clothes away… hehe

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AmandaSeliga offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Calgary, AB, CA | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 day, 6 hours after post)

can i copy this?

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cute

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Calgary, AB, CA | 1 year, 8 months ago (2 days, 14 hours after post)

I like the first one about the old man painting his wife’s nails…. AWWWWWWWWW!!! HOW CUTE!!!

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