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The God offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

i am only one 1/out of all the people of the world i shall be forgot in 1/13 millisecond

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The God offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

i shall be rememberd loger, once i prove i have vaule

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mike19 offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 23 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

Most people who have ever known me have forgotten me.

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3 months, 2 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

I know this feeling, Emily…all too well.

But then I think of others I know that made an impression on me that most likely seem forgetable to the rest of the world and I know that there are others out there that remember me. You ARE and unforgetable person, I hope you know that!

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fengshuisweetheart offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Grand Rapids, MI, US | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (10 hours, 2 minutes after post)

On the other side, I think that we do not realize how many people might think of us several times through their life. I know there are folks who have been in my life who would assume I have forgotten them. However, some word, some musical phrase, some circumstance, even a scent, can wisk their face and name into my mind in a miilisecond. (And usually that moment is a warm moment when I think “I wish I could say thanks for adding that to my life.”)

In some ways, that is who each of us is: composites of the myriad of people with whom we have been in contact. So, in theory, we may “live on” for generations– or at least our influence does–whether for bad or for good, being “remembered” for a long, long time.

Even you, LazyDaze, whenever I am “fighting the good fight” to make my children eat what is set before them and appreciate our abundance of food here, I think that I am not alone, because of a post of yours I read months ago….so while I’m thinking of it…thanks :-)

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LazyDaze~ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 207 #
Colwyn Bay, 90, GB | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (10 hours, 8 minutes after post)

fengshuisweetheart wrote:
Even you, LazyDaze, whenever I am “fighting the good fight” to make my children eat what is set before them and appreciate our abundance of food here, I think that I am not alone, because of a post of yours I read months ago….so while I’m thinking of it…thanks :-)

Oh lol, I remember that, yeah the struggles of getting kids to eat, or even just to try new foods :D

Thanks everyone, I am feeling better now, just had a moment like we all do at times, I think I have sorted it now though, I have done what I think is for the best and now I am going to try and move on and see where life takes me.
Life is full of ups and downs, I suppose thats what makes us who we are I mean we are either a flight or fight person, some people give up and hide and others face up to their problems…
I think I am a little of both, not sure, but anyway life goes on :)

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fengshuisweetheart offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Grand Rapids, MI, US | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (10 hours, 10 minutes after post)

Good for you! Keep up all of your “good fights”!

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LazyDaze~ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 207 #
Colwyn Bay, 90, GB | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (10 hours, 21 minutes after post)

Thank you :)
I will try.

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Fizz offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 282 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (15 hours, 38 minutes after post)

I would agree you are a little of both, you do try to work through things, but then right before you get there, you stop and go back in your shell. I hope one day you will be able to break that pattern and plow on through no matter how rough it is to get all of the way to the other side.

The closer you are to someone the less likely they are to forget you, but that isn’t always the case, we can impact people that we don’t even realize we are impacting.

In October I went to my 20th High School Reunion, I had the hardest time remembering people, I’d look at their name tags and I wouldn’t have a clue who they were, but they knew me. That makes you feel really awful, but it just goes to show you never know who is really paying attention.

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M2646 offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (15 hours, 57 minutes after post)

I’d like to think someone of importance to you will never be forgotten. Just acquaintances and people of no real meaning to you will be forgotten.
I am in the middle of a break up and really do not want to be forgotten about, I want to be remembered and always remembered and now lol. I guess I am being selfish.
Don’t allow yourself to think like that, when you turn that way just do something to distract you and make you happpy. Pick up a book or go for a walk. Because if you wrestle with questions like that, you’ll never be happy.
I’m sure you are a wonderful person and the people who care about you and love you will always remember you for being great. But why be remembered right now, live life and be known in the present! Don’t worry about being remembered right now :)

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JustTryingToHelp offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (19 hours, 57 minutes after post)

I don’t know how or how long I will be remembered, but to point to another post by fengshuisweetheart, I walked in on a person I know talking about me at work today. Pretty nice, did not realy know that person cared that mutch.
Just an example on how we might be surpriced

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molotok offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 40 #
Gävle, 03, SE | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

Well, I don’t forget you!
Not only for your nice stories and jokes, but also for being the first one to talk to on new year’s morning!
You are liked by so many, outmost important to your close ones. They just don’t show it all the time.

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~lilies~ offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 576 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 9 hours after post)

Hey Emily! how could i forget that smile of yours? I even look for it when you changed avatar!

I smile when i see that, because smile is contagious! :D

Nope, you are definitely not forgotten.

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LazyDaze~ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 207 #
Colwyn Bay, 90, GB | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 9 hours after post)

Thank you everyone :)
This was not meant to be a post about me though, although I am not one to complain about getting to many compliments :D
I just feel low and wondered if anyone else though about things like this too..
Although I do feel not to bad today, things can change though.

(Mood:Hopeful)

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~lilies~ offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 576 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 9 hours after post)

Now you are talking. :P

I feel that too! hehe! Sometimes.

Mood: (Optimistic)

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LazyDaze~ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 207 #
Colwyn Bay, 90, GB | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 9 hours after post)

Oh well thats good then :D
Maybe we can turn this post upside down and make it a cheerfull one :P

So far we have:
Hopeful
Optimistic

I wonder if anyone else will add to that.
Hmm maybe we should change the post, how can we be remembered and what would you be remembered for :D

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~lilies~ offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 576 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 9 hours after post)

Sister, hit that editing button and we’ll invite people. :D

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LazyDaze~ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 207 #
Colwyn Bay, 90, GB | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 9 hours after post)

MAde a new post instead :P

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~lilies~ offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 576 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 10 hours after post)

Hehehe, then so i hit the invite thingie. :)

You make me smile! :D and remember to keep the post open, even when we change moods!

Deal?! :D

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Colwyn Bay, 90, GB | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 10 hours after post)

LoL yeah deal :D

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~lilies~ offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 576 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 10 hours after post)

hahah, now i don’t know how can i be remembered. But anyway, the mood did it. :)

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Colwyn Bay, 90, GB | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 10 hours after post)

LoL lilies, I think you are remembered for alot, I mean you are kind, careing, thoughtful, funny reliable and also trustworthy…
That is just an on the spot list I thought of now so just think how much more there is :D

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~lilies~ offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 576 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 10 hours after post)

LazyDaze~ wrote:
LoL lilies, I think you are remembered for alot, I mean you are kind, careing, thoughtful, funny reliable and also trustworthy…That is just an on the spot list I thought of now so just think how much more there is :D

Awww. Thank you dear. Now i feel really good!

my mood: happy!

:D

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Forgotten.

Ever wonder how quickly you can be forgotten?
Sink into the mist of time.
Once gone forever forgotten,
Never missed and never remembered.

How long do you think it would take for people to forget you?
And what reasons would they have to remember you?

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