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Spouse

If I was married and my husband was cheating, I would rather hear the news from him!! Either way it would be horrible.

Spouse.

spouse. at least he should be honest.
(god i wish it won’t happen).

spouse. that way i don’t have to confront them

-Sophie- wrote:
I dont see any difference…he woul die regardless

hahahahahaha =]

Spouse. Then you KNOW. From other woman/man you have to ASK your spouse and HOPE they don’t lie.

Either way, its over.

spouse. then you know they at least feel guilty, and are honest enough to tell you and talk about it.

I would rather not know about the whole mess,but i cheater never admits

Spouse. I would like to know who the other person is, so I could chop them up.

-Sophie- wrote:

Chef wrote:
Spouse. I would like to know who the other person is, so I could chop them up.

Chop the spouse up…..do it the other way leaves him to do it again.

at least my may only one person gets the chop.

they both get chopped

spouse.
for the other person to tell me, would be very odd

however, they may not have known that they were partaking in an affair. then they might have found out, and are trying to do the right thing.

spouse!!!
it saves embarrassment!

it’s not nice hearing it from someone else, you feel like such a fooool!!!

xxxxxxx

[COLOR=”White”]Thanks Man, I was very surprised when it came.[/COLOR]

Spouse

If the other person told me, then I confronted my spouse and he denied it. I would talk myself into thinking the women was lieing.

I would rather hear it from my cheating spouse